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According to some researchers, you should not praise children for everything that they do. It does not help them build self-confidence.
Most parents and teachers agree that praise can help increase children’s self-confidence —the more, the better. However, according to some researchers, only proper praise is good for children. If adults praise everything children do, it makes children look for praise all the time, not trying to do their best. "Teachers should not say things like ’good job’ or ’nice work’ whenever a child does anything. They should encourage them to continue to improve," some researchers advise.
Another idea is that children with high self-confidence are happier, and do better at school. About this, Marshall Duke, a researcher in children, says, "High self-confidence brought in by too much praise does not make children happier, get more, or become able to do more. Finding a child’s advantages (强项) and developing them can help build confidence more than too much praise can." Praise also loses its effect (影响) if it is given equally to all students.
"It’s important to tell children the truth about what they’ve done. Honest feedback (反馈) is far better than empty praise," Duke adds. "People have got into the habit of not telling children when they’re wrong. That makes it hard for them to deal with difficulties when they grow up. That’s just how the world is."
【小题1】According to some researchers, if parents praise their children too much, their children will ______.
| A.always look for praise |
| B.increase self-confidence |
| C.become strong |
| D.do better in their studies |
| A.make them live more happily |
| B.let them do more difficult work |
| C.help them do better in school |
| D.encourage them to improve |
| A.Praise makes children become successful. |
| B.Children don’t know what they’re really good at. |
| C.The same praise for all children has no meaning. |
| D.Duke thinks praise is more important than finding children’s strengths. |
| A.It’s important to have the habit of praising children. |
| B.Children should know their mistakes as soon as possible. |
| C.We should praise children honestly and tell them their mistakes. |
| D.What children with high self-confidence are like. |
According to some researchers, you should not praise children for everything that they do. It does not help them build self-confidence.
Most parents and teachers agree that praise can help increase children’s self-confidence —the more, the better. However, according to some researchers, only proper praise is good for children. If adults praise everything children do, it makes children look for praise all the time, not trying to do their best. "Teachers should not say things like 'good job’ or 'nice work’ whenever a child does anything. They should encourage them to continue to improve," some researchers advise.
Another idea is that children with high self-confidence are happier, and do better at school. About this, Marshall Duke, a researcher in children, says, "High self-confidence brought in by too much praise does not make children happier, get more, or become able to do more. Finding a child’s advantages (强项) and developing them can help build confidence more than too much praise can." Praise also loses its effect (影响) if it is given equally to all students.
"It’s important to tell children the truth about what they’ve done. Honest feedback (反馈) is far better than empty praise," Duke adds. "People have got into the habit of not telling children when they’re wrong. That makes it hard for them to deal with difficulties when they grow up. That’s just how the world is."
【小题1】According to some researchers, if parents praise their children too much, their children will ______.
| A.always look for praise | B.increase self-confidence |
| C.become strong | D.do better in their studies |
| A.make them live more happily | B.let them do more difficult work |
| C.help them do better in school | D.encourage them to improve |
| A.The same praise for all children has no meaning |
| B.Children don’t know what they’re really good at. |
| C.Praise makes children become successful. |
| D.Duke thinks praise is more important than finding children’s strengths. |
| A.It’s important to have the habit of praising children. |
| B.Children should know their mistakes as soon as possible. |
| C.We should praise children honestly and tell them their mistakes. |
| D.What children with high self-confidence are like. |
The sun is shining when I get on No. 151 bus. We passengers sit jammed together in heavy clothes. No one speaks. That’s one of the unwritten rules of Chicago commuting. Although we see the same faces every day, we prefer to hide behind our newspapers. The phenomenon is striking: people who sit so close together are using those thin sheets of newsprint to keep their distance.
As the bus approaches the Magnificent Mile, a voice suddenly rings out: “Attention! Attention!” Papers rattle (发出细小声). Necks crane (伸长). “This is your driver speaking.”
We look at the back of the driver’s head. His voice has authority.
“All of you put your papers down.”
The papers come down, an inch at a time. The driver waits. The papers are folded and placed on our laps.
“Now, turn and face the person next to you. Go ahead.”
Amazingly, we all do it. Still, no one smiles.
I face an older woman, her head wrapped tightly in a red scarf. I see her nearly every day. Our eyes meet. We wait, unblinking, for the next order from the driver.
“Now, repeat after me…” It is a command, delivered in the tones of a drill sergeant (操练军士). “Good morning, neighbor!”
Our voices are weak and timid. For many of us, these are the first words we have spoken today. But we say them at the same time, like schoolchildren, to the strangers beside us.
We smile and can’t help it. We have said it; the barrier has been broken. Good morning, neighbor. It is not so hard after all. Some of us repeat it. Others shake hands. Many laugh.
The bus driver says nothing more. He doesn’t need to. Not a single newspaper goes back up. I hear laughter, a warm sound I have never heard before on bus No. 151. This day is starting off better than most.
【小题1】On hearing the sudden utterance of “Attention!”, the passengers ___________.
| A.stopped reading and put down their newspapers immediately |
| B.sat still without response |
| C.looked up from the newspapers to see who was speaking |
| D.were frightened |
| A.long-distance ride |
| B.daily traveling between home and work |
| C.communication technology |
| D.behavior patterns |
| A.The passengers on the crowded bus were so absorbed in reading their newspapers that no one spoke. |
| B.When the bus driver said nothing more, the passengers picked up and read their newspapers again. |
| C.The passengers didn’t follow the driver’s instruction at first. |
| D.The passengers were physically close together but mentally they kept each other at a terrible distance. |
| A.The Warmth of Communication |
| B.The Exchange of Information |
| C.The Power of Observation |
| D.The Attitude to Loneliness |
Imagine a world in which there was suddenly no emotion--a world in which human beings could feel no love or happiness, no terror or hate. Try to imagine the consequences of such a transformation. People might not be able to stay alive: knowing neither joy nor pleasure, anxiety nor fear, they would be as likely to repeat acts that hurt them as acts that were beneficial. They could not learn: they could not benefit from experience because this emotionless world would lack rewards and punishments. Society would soon disappear: people would be as likely to harm one another as to provide help and support. Human relationships would not exist: in a world without friends or enemies, there could be no marriage, affection among companions, or bonds (关系) among members of groups. Society's economic underpinnings (支柱) would be destroyed: since earning $10 million would be no more pleasant than earning $10, there would be no incentive to work. In fact, there would be no incentives of any kind, for as we will see, incentives imply a capacity to enjoy them.
In such a world, the chances that the human species would survive are next to zero, because emotions are the basic instrument of our survival and adaptation. Emotions structure the world for us in important ways. As individuals, we categorize objects on the basis of our emotions. True, we consider the length, shape, size, or texture, but an object's physical aspects are less important than what it has done or can do to us--hurt us, surprise us, anger us or make us joyful. We also use categorizations colored by emotions in our families, communities, and overall society. Out of our emotional experiences with objects and events comes a social feeling of agreement that certain things and actions are "good" and others are "bad”, and we apply these categories to every aspect of our social life--from what foods we eat and what clothes we wear to how we keep promises and which people our group will accept. In fact, society uses our emotional reactions and attitudes, such as loyalty morality, pride shame, guilt, fear and greed, in order to maintain itself. It gives high rewards to individuals who perform important tasks such as surgery, makes heroes out of individuals for unusual or dangerous achievements such as flying fighter planes in a war, and uses the legal penal (刑法的) system to make people afraid to engage in antisocial acts.
1.Which of the following is Right according to the first paragraph?
A.People would not be able to tell the texture of objects.
B.People would not know what was beneficial and what was harmful to them.
C.$10 million is equal to $10 in a world without emotions.
D.There would be full of lies, arguments and violence.
2.It can be inferred from the passage that the economic foundation of society is dependent on _______.
A.the ability to make money B.the capacity to work
C.the stimulus to work D.the categorizations of our emotional experiences
3.Emotions are significant for man's survival and adaptation because _______.
A.they provide the means by which people view the size or shape of objects.
B.they are the basis for the social feeling of agreement by which society is maintained.
C.they encourage people to perform dangerous achievements.
D.they produce more love than hate among people.
4.Why are the emotional aspects of an object more important than its physical aspects?
A.They help society use its members for profit.
B.They encourage us to perform important tasks.
C.They help to perfect the legal and penal system.
D.They help us adapt our behavior to the world surrounding us.
5.What is the text mainly about?
A.People could only live in a world with emotions.
B.People would always do bad things in the emotionless world.
C.Emotions are very important in the world.
D.Emotions structure the world for us in important ways.
查看习题详情和答案>> Kristy,28,a cook in La Gross, often wondered what she’d do in a life threatening situation. On August 29, she got her answer. While she was driving on a road,a big truck hit its head on a pickup car.The pickup burst into flames.Kristy rushed out and ran to the pickup.Two farmers,Dean Bernhard,51, and his brother,Donald,44,were inside.
When she got close,Kristy could see the unconscious driver.The other man was under the passenger seat. “The smells were sicking.I was afraid the truck would blow up and kill us all,” said kristy.
The driver of the big truck was struggling to open the passenger door,so Kristy rushed to the driver’s side.Finally they opened the door.She reached in,seized the driver and, to her horror,felt her hands sink into his chest.She quickly dragged the man to safety on the roadside,then hurried back.As Kristy started down the ditch(水沟) with the passenger,the pickup exploded..She jumped on top of him and they both rolled to safety.
Today,the two farmers,each the farmer of two children,are good friends with Kristy.To show their deep appreciation,they bought her a ring with nine diamonds---one for each member of their immediate families,and the ninth for her.
【小题1】Which is the correct order according to the passage?
a.carried Dean and Donald to safety
b.rushed to the pickup
c.the pickup exploded
d.saw the truck hit on the pickup
e.got out of her car
f.wondered what she’d do when in danger
| A.e,d,b,a,c,f | B.f,e,b,a,d,c | C.f,d,e,b,a,c | D.f,c,e,d,b,a |
| A.could have any help from others |
| B.would be successful in saving both of them |
| C.might be killed |
| D.would be tested in dangerous situations |
| A.The pickup was on fire |
| B.The pickup started smoking badly |
| C.A terrifying cry came out of the pickup |
| D.The pickup was broken into pieces |
| A.She did not feel terrified at the accident |
| B.She protected herself as well as the two brothers from harm. |
| C.She put her life “on the line” to save others. |
| D.She was regarded as a member of Dean’s and Donald’s families. |