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You must have been troubled by when to say “I love you” because it is one of the greatest puzzles in our life.
What if you say it first and your partner doesn’t love you back? Or if they do say it but you don’t feel they mean it? Being the first to declare your love can be nerve racking(紧张)and risky and can leave you feeling as vulnerable as a turtle with no shell. But is the person who says it first really in a position of weakness? Doesn’t it pay to hold back, play it cool and wait until the other half has shown their hand fast?
A really good relationship should be about “being fair and being equal,” says psychologist Sidney Crown. “But love is seldom equal.” All relationships go through power struggles but, he says, if a love imbalance continues for years, the rot will set in. “That feeling of ‘I’ve always loved you more’ may be subverted(颠覆,破坏) for a time, but it never goes away completely and it often emerges in squabbling(大声争吵).” In love, at least, the silent, withholding type is not always the most powerful. “The strongest one in a relationship is often the person who feels confident enough to talk about their feelings,” says educational psychologist Ingrid Collins. Psychosexual therapist Paula Hall agrees. “The one with the upper hand is often the person who takes the initiative. In fact, the person who says ‘I love you’ first may also be the one who says ‘I’ m bored with you’ first.” Hall believes that much depends on how “I love you” is said and the motivation of the person saying it. “Is it said when they’re drunk? Is it said before their partner files off on holiday, and what it really means is ‘Please don’ t be unfaithful to me’ ?” By saying ‘I love you’, they are really saying ‘Do you love me?’ If so, wouldn’t it just be more honest to say that. Collins agrees that intention is everything. “It’s not what is said, but how it’s said. What it comes down to is the sincerity of the speaker.”
【小题1】 What is the main idea of this passage?
A.The importance of “I love you” |
B.The meaning of “I love you” |
C.The time of saying “I love you” |
D.The place of saying “I love you” |
A.it is easy to say “I love you” |
B.it is hard to say “I love you” |
C.we have many troubles in our life |
D.people usually do not know when to say “I love you” |
A.fair and equal | B.fair and kind |
C.powerful and equal | D.confident and fair |
A.being low in spirit | B.having only one hand |
C.being active | D.being passive |
根据对话情景和内容,从对话后所给的选项中选出能填入每一空白处的最佳选项,选项中有两个为多余选项.
John:The final exam is coming; seems you are busy preparing for it.
Mary:Of course.Nobody, except you, is idling around the whole day long.
John:Don't say that. 1 In fact, I've been working very hard these days.
Mary: 2
John:Believe me, I've really made good preparations this time and I'm staying up late every night…
Mary:Very well, that's to say, you don't need my help any more.
John:You may well say so, but en…en…, if possible, would you be kind enough to do me a little bit of favour?
Mary:No way.Never expect me to do that. 3
John:I'm begging you, Mary, please, just this one time. 4 I'm remembering the new words time and time again but keeping forgetting them time and time again.Besides, it is so easy a job:just pass on a note, that's OK.
Mary:It is everything but easy! I was almost caught last time!
John: 5
A.Truth to tell, I hate it.
B.You are always not believing me.
C.I am not so good at English as you.
D.You see, I was born with a poor memory.
E.I promise to buy you a lovely Barbie girl, OK?
F.You wrong me if you think I know nothing but fun.
G.You are always that way:making efforts at the last moment.
In England recently three foreign gentlemen came to a bus stop and waited. About five minutes later, the bus they wanted came along. They were just going to get on when suddenly there was a loud noise behind them. People rushed onto the bus and tried to push them out of the way. Someone shouted at them. The bus conductor came rushing down the stairs to see what all the trouble was about. The three foreigners seem all at sea(茫然) and looked embarrassed(尴尬的). No one had told them about the British custom of lining up for a bus that the first person who arrives at the bus stop is the first person to get on the bus.
Learning the language of a country isn't enough. If you want to have a pleasant visit, find out as much as possible about the manners and customs of your host country. You will probably be surprised just how different they can be from your own. A visitor to India would do well to remember that people there consider it impolite to use the left hand for passing food at table. The left hand is supposed to be used for washing yourself. Also in India, you might see a man shaking his head at another to show that he doesn't agree. But in many parts of India a shake of the head means agreement. Nodding (点头) your head when you are given a drink in Bulgaria will most probably leave you thirsty .
In that country, you shake your head to mean 'yes'— a nod means 'no'. At a meal in countries on the Arabic Peninsula, you will find that your glass is repeated refilled(再斟满) as soon as you drink up. If you think that you have had enough, you should take the cup or glasses in your hand and give it a little shake from side to side or place your hand over the top.
In Europe it is quite usual to cross your legs when you are sitting talking to someone even at an important meeting. Doing this in Thailand, however, could bring about trouble. Also, you should try to avoid touching the head of an adult ——it's just not done in Thailand.
【小题1】The British people tried to push the three gentlemen out of the way, because the gentlemen _________.
A.were foreigners | B.didn't have tickets |
C.made a loud noise | D.didn't line up for the bus |
A.learn the language of the country |
B.understand the manners and customs of the country |
C.have enough time and money |
D.make friends with the people there |
A.to use the right hand for passing food at table. |
B.to pass food with the left hand. |
C.to eat food with your hands. |
D.to help yourself at table. |
A.a common habit | B.an important manner |
C.a serious trouble | D.a bad manner |
A.People's Everyday Life | B.Mind Your Manners |
C.Shaking and Nodding Head | D.Taking a Bus in England |