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If I have learned anything in my 16 years, it is that communication is very important, both when you disagree and when you get along. With any relationship, you need to let other person know how you are feeling. If you are not able to communicate, you drift apart.When you are mad at your parents, or anyone else, not talking to them doesn’t solve anything.
Communication begins with the concerns (关心) of another. It means that you can’t just come home from school, go up to your room and take no notice to anyone. Even if you just say “Hi”, and see how their day was for five minutes, it is better than nothing.
If you looked up the word “communication” in a dictionary, it would say “the exchange of ideas, the conveyance （表达）of information, correspondence （通信）, means of communication: a letter or a message”. To keep a good relationship, you must keep communication strong. Let people know how you feel, even if it’s just by writing a note.
When dealing with parents, you always have to make them feel good about how they are doing as a parent. If you are trying to make them see something as you see it, tell them that you’ll listen to what they have to say, and ask them politely to listen to you. Shouting or walking away only makes the situation worse.
Here is an example: one night, Sophie went to a street party with her friends. She knew she had to be home by midnight after the fireworks, but she didn’t feel she could just ask to go home. That would be rude. After all, they had been nice enough to take her along with them. Needless to say, she was late getting home. Her parents were mad at first, but when Sophie explained why she was late, they weren’t as mad and let it go. Communication is the key here. If Sophie’s parents had not been willing to listen, Sophie would have been in a lot of trouble.
Communication isn’t a one-way matter: it goes both ways. Just remember: if you get into a situation like Sophie’s, telling the other person how you feel-------listening is the key to communication.
小题1:In the writer’s view, dealing with parents is __________ than with children.
| A．more difficult | B．much easier |
| C．less interesting | D．more interesting |
| A．keep up with others | B．move along smoothly |
| C．distance yourself form others | D．come closer to each other |
| A．Sophie is very polite to her parents |
| B．Sophie’s parents are willing to listen to her |
| C．Sophie did well in explaining her being late |
| D．communication is the solutionto misunderstanding |
| A．Communication is a two-way matter |
| B．It is better to say “Hi” to others than say nothing |
| C．If you don’t agree with others, you’d better let them know |
| D．When dealing with parents, you only need to listen to them |
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If you think you are too shy and want to be a little bit braver, just try the following things．
Be open to others．Tell people you are shy．There is no need to hide it．When they get to know you are a shy kid, they will understand you better．This also helps you feel more comfortable in talks．
Try to smile more．When you smile, people think you are friendly and easy to talk with．Remember that other people have feelings, too; and most people will stay away from an angry-looking face．
Learn to be a good talker．If you find it hard to start a conversation, say something nice about people around you．Think about how great you feel when someone says something nice to you．Doesn’t it make you want to keep talking to that oerson?
Get your attention elsewhere．Think more about ways to enjoy parties or games．Don’t waste time worrying about your look or whether people like you or not．You will become relaxed and find it’s not so hard to talk with others．
Take one small step at a time．Each time when you say “Hi!” or smile at someone, say to yourself “You can make it．” Keep trying and one day you’ll never feel shy when you talk to others．
Feeling left out?
A reader wrote in to say that she was feeling lonely at break(课间) because her best friend wasn’t around. Here’s our advice to her—and to all kids who feel lonely sometimes．
It’s hard when a best friend isn’t around—maybe because she moved to a different school or a different class. You may feel lonely at break or lunchtime. You want to have new friends. But how do you make them? Maybe it seems like everybody else already has their friends. But remember, there’s always room for more friends．
Start by looking around your classroom—think about which kids you’d like to play with at break. Look for chances to say hi to them, smile, and be friendly. Offer to share something or express your appreciation(欣赏)to them. Invite someone to play with you or say “Do you want to sit here?”when you have lunch.
When you’re at break, walk over to kids you want to play with, act friendly, and say “Hi, can I play, too?” or just join in.
If you have trouble doing this or if you’re feeling shy, ask your teacher to help you make new friends. Teachers are usually pretty good at matching up friends. The best way to make friends is to be a friend. Be kind, be friendly, share, say nice things, offer to help—and pretty soon, you’ll have one, or two, or even more new friends.
You might still miss that special best friend. But when you see each other, you can share something you didn’t have before she left. You can introduce her to your new friends!
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( )51. This text is written for ．
A. teachers B. parents C. students D. visitors
( )52. According to the writer, some kids feel lonely at break because they ．
A. have trouble with their studies
B. don’t have their best friends around
C. need their parents to be with them
D. are too young to look after themselves
( )53. The underlined word this in Paragraph 4 refers to(指的是) .
A. sharing your ideas B. talking before many people
C. studying better at school D. developing(发展) new friendship
( )54.Some kids need help from teachers to make friends because .
A. they miss their old friends a lot
B. they have no time to stay with others
C. teachers know who wants a new friend
D. they are shy or not good at making friends
( )55. The expression “feeling left out'’ means“ ”in Chinese．
A．受冷落 8．被调侃 C．挨批评 D．遭攻击
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