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What is your body language saying to your children? What is their body language telling you? I had the honor of hearing Jan Hargrave speak the other day. She is one of four body language experts in the US. Jan Hargrave says we lie with the right side of our brains, so it is our left hand that gives us away. A person touching his nose, pulling at his ear or rubbing his eye with his left hand might be lying to you. Also, a person who, in any way, crosses any fingers might just be lying. That, she says, is a holdover(遗留物) from childhood, when we crossed our fingers to signal that we didn’t mean what we were saying. When children squint(眨) their eyes, move their body away from you, or can’t seem to make good eye contact, you may need to ask for a little more clarification.
But just as important, children learn early how to read our body language when they are conversing(交谈) with us. Here are some acceptance signals to let them know you are interested when they are talking to you. Lean(倾斜) towards them. Make good eye contact and smile. Open your arms. Let your hands relax with the palms(手掌) showing: an open, upward palm always show acceptance. If your legs are crossed, make sure you are not crossing them away from your child. These are important because they signal to your child that you are focused on them and are accepting and welcoming them into your world.
By paying attention, we can open those lines of important communication with our children and we can see the truth more clearly. I think it would be a mistake to use these tools to lie, but we need to be aware of the signals we are giving so we can show people that they really do matter to us.
【小题1】According to Jan Hargrave, we can tell whether a person is lying by _______.
A.observing his/her left hand’s movements. |
B.looking at how he/ she crosses his/ her fingers |
C.observing whether he/ she uses body language |
D.making good eye contact with him/ her |
A.is hard to master for children |
B.can be understood in different ways |
C.may help improve communication |
D.is more likely to hide the truth |
A.Smile while making eye contact. |
B.Open your arms to them. |
C.Relax your hands with the palms showing. |
D.Cross your leg away from them. |
A.spend more time with their children |
B.learn to read and use body language |
C.pay attention to family communication |
D.try to prevent their children from lying |
What is your body language saying to your children? What is their body language telling you? I had the honor of hearing Jan Hargrave speak the other day. She is one of four body language experts in the US. Jan Hargrave says we lie with the right side of our brains, so it is our left hand that gives us away. A person touching his nose, pulling at his ear or rubbing his eye with his left hand might be lying to you. Also, a person who, in any way, crosses any fingers might just be lying. That, she says, is a holdover(遗留物) from childhood, when we crossed our fingers to signal that we didn’t mean what we were saying. When children squint(眨) their eyes, move their body away from you, or can’t seem to make good eye contact, you may need to ask for a little more clarification.
But just as important, children learn early how to read our body language when they are conversing(交谈) with us. Here are some acceptance signals to let them know you are interested when they are talking to you. Lean(倾斜) towards them. Make good eye contact and smile. Open your arms. Let your hands relax with the palms(手掌) showing: an open, upward palm always show acceptance. If your legs are crossed, make sure you are not crossing them away from your child. These are important because they signal to your child that you are focused on them and are accepting and welcoming them into your world.
By paying attention, we can open those lines of important communication with our children and we can see the truth more clearly. I think it would be a mistake to use these tools to lie, but we need to be aware of the signals we are giving so we can show people that they really do matter to us.
1.According to Jan Hargrave, we can tell whether a person is lying by _______.
A.observing his/her left hand’s movements.
B.looking at how he/ she crosses his/ her fingers
C.observing whether he/ she uses body language
D.making good eye contact with him/ her
2.We can learn from the passage that body language _______.
A.is hard to master for children
B.can be understood in different ways
C.may help improve communication
D.is more likely to hide the truth
3.Which of the following does NOT show acceptance to people?
A.Smile while making eye contact.
B.Open your arms to them.
C.Relax your hands with the palms showing.
D.Cross your leg away from them.
4.In the last paragraph, the author seems to suggest that parents_______.
A.spend more time with their children
B.learn to read and use body language
C.pay attention to family communication
D.try to prevent their children from lying
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The young woman entered the pool where an injured dolphin (海豚) was swimming. Despite her fear, she felt strong wearing her new leg.
In her second grade, Maja 36 her cousin, Jasmina. After Jasmina’s death, Maja swore she would honor the little girl by 37 with a dolphin, an animal that both girls 38. “Jasmina never got the chance to do it,” says Maja, now 32, “so I 39 that someday I’d do it for her.”
In high school, Maja was 40 about sports. She even planned to become an athlete. 41, in 1993, during the civil war in her home country, a bomb 42 her left leg.
After two years’ 43 in the U.S., Maja received her first artificial (人造的) leg, but 44 it didn’t fit well, walking for Maja was very painful. 45, she managed to graduate from a local high school. Then after receiving a 46 from Saint Francis University, she got a job at an insurance firm and 47 started her own company.
To relax, Maja 48 often watch the dolphins play at an aquarium (水族馆) near her home. A young dolphin, Winter, who had lost its tail, caught her 49. One day, Maja happened to see trainers 50 Winter with a high-tech tail. When they were done, Winter swam freely in the water. Maja was51. She managed to find the inventors of Winter’s tail. Within ten days, she had a new leg which freed her of the 52 that had troubled her for almost 16 years.
Now Maja was ready to keep her 53. She went to the aquarium, lowered herself into the pool and held out a hand to Winter, who approached 54, then swam away. After a few minutes, the dolphin let Maja 55 its back. Finally, the two began to swim around the pool together.
36. A. visited B. lost C. left D. rescued
37. A. living B. talking C. surfing D. swimming
38. A. adopted B. adored C. purchased D. possessed
39. A. decided B. pretended C.agreed D. preferred
40. A. enthusiastic B. positive C. curious D. particular
41. A. Surprisingly B. Undoubtedly C. Unfortunately D. Strangely
42. A. took over B. took away C. cut out D. cut down
43. A. operation B. study C. experiment D. treatment
44. A. because B. until C. if D. although
45. A. Therefore B. Otherwise C. However D. Besides
46. A. degree B. scholarship C. notice D. prize
47. A. actually B. gradually C. naturally D. eventually
48. A. should B. might C. would D. could
49. A. leg B. eye C. hand D. nose
50. A. guiding B. decorating C. fitting D. marking
51. A. puzzled B. inspired C. amused D. shocked
52. A. sadness B. worry C. fear D. pain
53. A. promise B. appointment C. habit D. record
54. A. angrily B. blindly C. cautiously D. gratefully
55. A. cover B. strike C. wipe D. touch
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The young woman entered the pool where an injured dolphin (海豚) was swimming. Despite her fear, she felt strong wearing her new leg. In her second grade, Maja 1 her cousin, Jasmina. After Jasmina's death, Maja swore she would honor the little girl by 2 with a dolphin, an animal that both girls 3 . "Jasmina never got the chance to do it." says Maja, now, "so I 4 that someday I'd do it for her." In high school, Maja was 5 about sports. She even planned to become an athlete. 6 , in 1993, during the civil war in her home country, a bomb 7 her left leg. After two years' 8 in the U.S., Maja received her first artificial (人造的) leg. But 9 it didn't fit well, walking for Maja was very painful. 10 she managed to graduate from a local high school. Then after receiving a 11 from Saint Francis University, she got a job at an insurance firm and 12 started her own company. To relax, Maja 13 often watch the dolphins play at an aquarium (水族馆) near her home. A young dolphin, Winter, who had lost its tail, caught her 14 . One day, Maja happened to see trainers 15 Winter with a high-tech tail. When they were done, Winter swam freely in the water. Maja was 16 . She managed to find the inventors of Winter's tail. Within ten days, she had a new leg which freed her of the 17 that had troubled her for almost 16 years. Now, Maja was ready to keep her 18 . She went to the aquarium. Lowered herself into the pool and held out a hand to Winter, who approached 19 , then swam away. After a few minutes, the dolphin let Maja 20 its back. Finally, the two began to swim around the pool together. | ||||
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The young woman entered the pool where an injured dolphin (海豚) was swimming.Despite her fear, she felt strong wearing her new leg. In her second grade, Maja __1__ her cousin, Jasmina.After Jasmina's death, Maja swore she would honor the little girl by__2__ with a dolphin, an animal that both girls __3__."Jasmina never got the chance to do it," says Maja, now 32,"so I __4__ that someday I'd do it for her." In high school, Maja was __5__ about sports.She even planned to become an athlete.__6__, in 1993, during the civil war in her home country, a bomb __7__ her left leg. After two years' __8__ in the U. S., Maja received her first artificial (人造的) leg, but __9__ it didn't fit well,walking for Maja was very painful.__10__, she managed to graduate from a local high school. Then after receiving a __11__from Saint Francis University, she got a job at an insurance,firm and __12__ started her own company. To relax, Maja __13__often watch the dolphins play at an aquarium (水族馆) near her home.A young dolphin, Winter, who had lost its tail, caught her __14__ .One day, Maja happened to see trainers __15__ Winter with a hightech tail.When they were done, Winter swam freely in the water. Maja was __16__.She managed to find the inventors of Winter's tail.Within ten days, she had a new leg which freed her of the __17__ that had troubled her for almost 16 years. Now Maja was ready to keep her __18__.She went to the aquarium, lowered herself into the pool and held out a hand to Winter, who approached __19__, then swam away.After a few minutes, the dolphin let Maja __20__ its back.Finally,the two began to swim around the pool together. | ||||
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