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How to be a good listener
Everyone loves a good listener. But there are more reasons to develop the skill of listening than to win hearts or popularity contests.
Listening heals hurts and builds bridges. It gives us the ability to understand and empathize, to view the world from our own point. It can bring us wisdom over and above mere intelligence. But most importantly, it allows us to give the people around us the gifts they crave (渴望) most—a sense of worth.
As it turns out, there’s more to good listening than just keeping quiet and allowing someone to speak. Effective listening is actually a combination of two key communication skills: listening and verifying (确认).
Even when we’ve managed to hear a person’s entire message, we often interpret it wrong—according to our own understanding, experience, or prejudice. As an effective listener, your goal is to hear and absorb what another has to say……in exactly the way they mean it to be understood. Only then can you respond properly. This is much easier read than done, so here are a few helpful tips:
1. Give the speaker your full attention.
Stop talking and remove all distractions. Turn off the TV, your phone, or computer. Watch your body language. The way you look at the speaker, or the way you stand or sit, makes a huge difference. The right listening body language communicates that we are listening openly and attentively, and puts the other person at ease.
2. Be patient.
Not everyone is a gifted speaker. Some people take longer to find the right word to make a point. Others are too worried to get their message across properly. If necessary, ask the speaker to explain further. It will help him / her speak more exactly and it will help you hear and understand better.
3. Keep your emotions in check.
If what someone is saying creates an emotional response in you, make an extra effort to listen carefully. When we’re angry, frightened or upset, we often miss key parts of what is being said.
4. Hold your fire.
Don’t jump to conclusions immediately. A good listener doesn’t react until comprehension is complete. If you respond in a way that makes the other person defensive, even if you “win” the argument, you may lose something far more valuable.
5. Even if you think you understand. VERIFY.
Never assume you got the message right. Pause, think about what was said, and then ask “Is this what you meant?” or “Am I understanding this right?”
6. Empathize
Take a moment to stand in the other person’s shoes, to look at the situation from his / her point of view……especially when you’re being told something personal or painful, or something you strongly disagree with. The more shoes you are able to successfully stand in within your life time, the less puzzled you’ll find your life and relationships to be.

 
【小题1】__________ of good listening
【小题2】__________ hurts.
Building 【小题3】__________.
Allowing us to【小题4】__________ and empathize, and viewing the world in an all-round way.
Bringing us wisdom over and above mere intelligence.
【小题5】_________ the people around us feel worthy.
   Components of effective
listening
● Good listening consists of two key communication skills: 【小题6】__________ and verifying.
 
【小题7】__________ to be a
good listener
Listening to the speaker 【小题8】_________.
Trying to be a 【小题9】 _______ listener.
Avoiding being affected by your emotions.
Waiting before you take【小题10】_________.
Verifying.
Empathizing

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   Is it difficult for you to get up in the morning? Do you sometimes oversleep? Are you often late for work or school? Yes? The Hiroyuki Sugiyama of Japan has a(n)   21   bed for you. Hiroyuki’s bed will   22   you up in the morning! Here is how it   23   .

The bed   24  an alarm clock. First, the alarm clock rings. You have a few minutes to wake up. Next, a tape recorder in the bed plays   25   music or other pleasant sounds. The tape recorder in Hiroyuki’s bed plays a recording of his girlfriend. She whispers in a sweet   26   , "Wake up, darling, please. "A few minutes later, a second recording   27   . The sound recording can be loud music or   28   sounds. Hiroyuki hears a recording of his boss. His boss   29   ,“Wake up immediately,     30   you’ll be late!”

    If you don’t get up   31  the second recording, you   32   be sorry! A mechanical "foot" is in the bed. The mechanical foot kicks you in the head. Then the bed waits a few   33  minutes. What! You’re   34   in bed! Slowly the   35   of the bed rises higher and higher. The foot of the bed goes lower and lower.   36   , the bed is vertical(垂直的). You slide off the bed and onto the floor. You are out of bed and become   37   .

Hiroyuki made his bed because he wanted to   38   a contest. He works for Honda Motor Company. Every two years Honda has a contest for its 200,000 employees--" All Honda Idea Contest." The employees think of new   39   . If their ideas win, the employees win   40 .    Hiroyuki Sugiyama won one of the top prizes for his bed.

 

1.A. expensive              B. special              C. valuable               D. comfortable

2.A. get                 B. catch           C. make                  D. let

3.A. works               B. runs            C. happens               D. moves

4.A. is separated from               B. is made up of    

         C. is connected to        D. is made into

5.A. loud                B. classical         C. pop                 D. soft

6.A. sound                   B. voice           C. noise             D. way

7.A. sends                  B. turns          C. plays             D. appears

8.A. pleasant             B. interesting     C. unpleasant                  D. funny

9.A. shouts               B. calls          C. whispers           D. persuades

10.A. and                  B. but                     C. so                D. or

11.A. before              B. until          C. since              D. after

12.A. can                  B. will           C. may              D. would

13.A. other               B. another        C. more              D. one

14.A. still                B. yet             C. already             D. even

15.A. end                  B. middle          C. body               D. top

16.A. However               B. Finally                   C. Therefore           D. Otherwise

17.A. angry                 B. asleep        C. happy              D. awake

18.A. achieve               B. win            C. gain               D. defeat

19.A. ideas                B. problems        C. facts               D. ways

20.A. praises                 B. positions      C. prizes              D. medals

 

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 My topic today is the Internet. It was prompted(引出)by the first letter, which I am unable to answer fully for the reasons given!

Dear David,

I’m a middle school student. Now I am preparing for a writing competition. Could you please check the mistakes in my article about using the Internet and

Give me some advice?                           No name                                                                               David writes: I’m very sorry to say that I think it would be very unfair for me to help you win a competition--- unfair to the other competitors!

But I’ll say that your article is very interesting and I wish you good luck.

Dear David,

     I’m now learning English by myself. Can you introduce some useful websites where I can make friends with foreigners? Please help me.

Moonlight

David writes: Well, dear moonlight, I think you made a good choice by using the Net in your self-studies. Two very good websites I’d suggest to you are:

www.britishcouncil.org.cn and www.britishcouncil.org.cn/learn.

     By the way, for those readers interested in the teaching of English, there is an Internet discussion group called ELTCSChi-L (English Language Teaching Contacts Scheme China List).

     And also, a healthy warning to all my readers: If over-used, the Internet can be a WOMBAT—A Waste of Money, Brains and Time!

1. David is probably a ________.

   A. language expert        B. computer expert    

C. college student         D. club chairman

2.  What is the reason why the first letter is unable to be fully answered?

A. David is unable to think out good advice.

B. David thinks it is expected to play fair in the competition.

C. David is going to talk on another topic-Internet.

D. David finds no mistakes in that article.

3.“www.britishcouncil.org.cn” is a (an)________.

A. English newspaper for students and language teachers.

B. website where one can join a discussion group.

C. newspaper column for answering readers’ questions .

D. website where one can make foreign friends.

 

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