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Some people have a kind of magic. They will make you comfortable while they are around. You feel at ease while talking to them. How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what kind of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the topic of conversation. If someone insists on one topic, it means he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to the voice. If the voice sounds bored, then, it's time for you to change the topic.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of saying good-bye. If you're saying it, you may give him a handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know your thoughts.
【小题1】Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way ________.
A.for you to make more and more new friends |
B.to begin your business talks |
C.to get things going |
D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
A.agree with what others say all the time |
B.listen to his reply attentively |
C.wait impatiently for his answer |
D.go on asking him more questions |
A.are not good at making any topic interesting |
B.never talk too much or too little |
C.always speak in a gentle way |
D.know when they should change the topic of the talk |
A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |
Some people have a kind of magic. They will make you comfortable while they are around. You feel at ease while talking to them. How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what kind of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the topic of conversation. If someone insists on one topic, it means he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to the voice. If the voice sounds bored, then, it's time for you to change the topic.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of saying good-bye. If you're saying it, you may give him a handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know your thoughts.
【小题1】Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way ________.
A.for you to make more and more new friends |
B.to begin your business talks |
C.to get things going |
D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
A.agree with what others say all the time |
B.listen to his reply attentively |
C.wait impatiently for his answer |
D.go on asking him more questions |
A.are not good at making any topic interesting |
B.never talk too much or too little |
C.always speak in a gentle way |
D.know when they should change the topic of the talk |
A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what kind of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the topic of conversation. If someone insists on one topic, it means he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to the voice. If the voice sounds bored, then, it's time for you to change the topic.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of saying good-bye. If you're saying it, you may give him a handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know your thoughts.
小题1:Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way ________.
A.for you to make more and more new friends |
B.to begin your business talks |
C.to get things going |
D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
A.agree with what others say all the time |
B.listen to his reply attentively |
C.wait impatiently for his answer |
D.go on asking him more questions |
A.are not good at making any topic interesting |
B.never talk too much or too little |
C.always speak in a gentle way |
D.know when they should change the topic of the talk |
A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |
选择填空:
—— Tim, we're going to Hangzhou on Sunday. Will you join us?
—— I'd love to, but I have a meeting that day. _______.
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A. Thank you all the way
B. Thank you this way
C. Thank you all the same
D. Don't worry
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The Black family decided to go out for a vacation.They had a family meeting to plan it.
“First, we should decide where to go.” said Mr.Black.
“I don’t agree,” Mrs.Black said, “I think we should decide when we want to go to first.We don’t want to go some countries when they’re cold.”
Mr.Black agreed, so the family’s first decision was when to go on vacation.They decided to go in July, when it is warm in the northern part of the world.
“Now we can decide where to go,” Mr.Black said.
“But Dad,” Jim, their son, said, “don’t you think that where we go depends on how we go? If we plan to fly, we can go a long way.If we plan to drive, we can’t go far.”
Mr.Black agreed, and they discussed this.At last they agreed to travel by plane.Then Mr.Black said, “Now, where do we want to go?”
“Dad, I think we should work out how many days of holiday we will have before we can
decide where to go.” Jim said.
The family meeting went on.The next day, one of Mr.Black’s friend at work asked.“Have you planned your vacation yet?”
“We have decided when we want to go, how we want to get there, how long we want to stay, and how much money we can spend,” Mr.Black told him, “but we still haven’t decided where we are going!”
根据短文内容,回答下列问题.
1.Who was going on a vacation?
________
2.How many items did they talk about? What were they?
________
3.Do you think the plan was perfect?
________
4.What was wrong with the plan?
________
5.In your opinion, what should we think over for a travelling plan?
________