摘要: The talk was so boring that many of us felt while listening to it.

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Some people have a kind of magic. They will make you comfortable while they are around. You feel at ease while talking to them. How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what kind of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the topic of conversation. If someone insists on one topic, it means he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to the voice. If the voice sounds bored, then, it's time for you to change the topic.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of saying good-bye. If you're saying it, you may give him a handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know your thoughts.
【小题1】Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way ________.

A.for you to make more and more new friends
B.to begin your business talks
C.to get things going
D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others
【小题2】After asking somebody a question, it'll be polite of you to ________.
A.agree with what others say all the time
B.listen to his reply attentively
C.wait impatiently for his answer
D.go on asking him more questions
【小题3】Generally speaking, good talkers are persons who ________.
A.are not good at making any topic interesting
B.never talk too much or too little
C.always speak in a gentle way
D.know when they should change the topic of the talk
【小题4】If you really want to meet someone again, ________.
A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend
B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it
C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake
D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him

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Two students started quarreling at school. One student shouted dirty words at the other, and a fight began.
What can be done to stop fights like this at school? In some schools, disputants(争执者) sit down with peer mediators (同龄调解者). Peer mediators are usually students with special training in this kind of problems.
Peer mediators help disputants to talk in a friendly way. Here are some of the ways they use.
1. Express what you think clearly but don't say anything to hurt the other. Begin with "I feel" instead of "You always".
2. Listen carefully to what the other person is saying. Don't stop the other person's words.
3. Keep looking at the other person's eyes when he or she speaks.
4. Try to see the problems on the other person's side.
5. Never put anyone down. Saying things like "You are foolish (愚蠢的)" makes the talk difficult.
6. Try to find a result that makes both people happy.
Peer mediators never decide on the winner. They don't decide who is right or who is wrong. Instead they help disputants to find their own "win-win" result. A "win-win" result can make everyone feel good.
Peer mediators' work is often successful just because it gets disputants to talk to each other. And getting disputants to talk to each other is the first step in finding a "win-win" result.
【小题1】Peer mediators' work is _.

A.to teach lessons to disputants
B.to help find a way to make both disputants happy
C.to find out who starts the quarrel
D.to give students some special training
【小题2】What does the underlined phrase "put anyone down" mean in Chinese?
A. 贬低任何人   b.落后于任何人    
C. 奉承任何人 d.向任何人低头
【小题3】What's the first step in finding a "win-win" result?
A.Letting disputants be afraid of peer mediators.
B.Letting disputants feel peer mediators are kind.
C.Getting disputants to talk to each other.
D.Making disputants feel good by telling funny stories.
【小题4】During the talk, if peer mediators say "You are a fool.",
A.disputants will realize they are wrong
B.disputants will understand peer mediators better
C.it is easy for peer mediators to decide who is right
D.it is hard for peer mediators to get a "win-win" result
【小题5】Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?
A.All schools have peer mediators.
B.Peer mediators are usually students.
C.When disputants are speaking, peer mediators can stop their words at any time.
D.Peer mediators can make disputants get a "win-win" result every time.

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