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Some people have a kind of magic. They will make you comfortable while they are around. You feel at ease while talking to them. How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what kind of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the topic of conversation. If someone insists on one topic, it means he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to the voice. If the voice sounds bored, then, it's time for you to change the topic.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of saying good-bye. If you're saying it, you may give him a handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know your thoughts.
【小题1】Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way ________.
| A.for you to make more and more new friends |
| B.to begin your business talks |
| C.to get things going |
| D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
| A.agree with what others say all the time |
| B.listen to his reply attentively |
| C.wait impatiently for his answer |
| D.go on asking him more questions |
| A.are not good at making any topic interesting |
| B.never talk too much or too little |
| C.always speak in a gentle way |
| D.know when they should change the topic of the talk |
| A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
| B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
| C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
| D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |
根据下面一篇短文的内容判断下列句子的正误,正确的用“A”表示,错误的用“B”表示。
Vince is an officer in the navy(海军军官).He is thirty-five years old.He lives on the sea(海洋)most of the time.
Last week.Vince went to a city for vacation.One evening,after he had supper, he decided to go to a movie.He got on a bus and stood by the door. More than ten minutes later, a drunk (醉汉) got on the bus.“Hey! Does the bus go to the zoo?”he asked Vince.
Vince said nothing and was going to the front.But the drunk caught hold of(抓住)him and went on asking,“This bus will take me to the zoo.won't it?”
Vince became angry and said,“Look carefully.I'm not a conductor,but an officer in the navy!”
Hearing this,the drunk spoke loudly,“Stop the ship, then! I want to take a bus!”
【小题1】This story happened on the sea.
【小题2】Vince took the bus to go to a zoo.
【小题3】The underlined word“conductor”means “售票员”in the passage.
【小题4】At last, the drunk thought he was in a ship.
【小题5】We can learn from the passage that the drunk took the wrong bus.
Some people have a kind of magic. They will make you comfortable while they are around. You feel at ease while talking to them. How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what kind of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the topic of conversation. If someone insists on one topic, it means he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to the voice. If the voice sounds bored, then, it's time for you to change the topic.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of saying good-bye. If you're saying it, you may give him a handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know your thoughts.
【小题1】Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way ________.
| A.for you to make more and more new friends |
| B.to begin your business talks |
| C.to get things going |
| D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
| A.agree with what others say all the time |
| B.listen to his reply attentively |
| C.wait impatiently for his answer |
| D.go on asking him more questions |
| A.are not good at making any topic interesting |
| B.never talk too much or too little |
| C.always speak in a gentle way |
| D.know when they should change the topic of the talk |
| A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
| B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
| C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
| D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |
根据下面一篇短文的内容判断下列句子的正误,正确的用“A”表示,错误的用“B”表示。
Vince is an officer in the navy(海军军官).He is thirty-five years old.He lives on the sea(海洋)most of the time.
Last week.Vince went to a city for vacation.One evening,after he had supper, he decided to go to a movie.He got on a bus and stood by the door. More than ten minutes later, a drunk (醉汉) got on the bus.“Hey! Does the bus go to the zoo?”he asked Vince.
Vince said nothing and was going to the front.But the drunk caught hold of(抓住)him and went on asking,“This bus will take me to the zoo.won't it?”
Vince became angry and said,“Look carefully.I'm not a conductor,but an officer in the navy!”
Hearing this,the drunk spoke loudly,“Stop the ship, then! I want to take a bus!”
1.This story happened on the sea.
2.Vince took the bus to go to a zoo.
3.The underlined word“conductor”means “售票员”in the passage.
4.At last, the drunk thought he was in a ship.
5.We can learn from the passage that the drunk took the wrong bus.
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Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it's time for you to change the subject.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of parting. If you're saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they've known you half their life.
【小题1】Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way _______.
| A.for you to make more and more new friends |
| B.to begin your business talks |
| C.to get the conversation going smoothly |
| D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
| A.make clear what kind of person he is |
| B.listen to his reply attentively |
| C.wait quietly and patiently for his answer |
| D.go on asking him more questions |
| A.are good at making any topic interesting |
| B.never talk too much or too little |
| C.always speak in a gentle way |
| D.know how and when they should change the topic of the talk |
| A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
| B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
| C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
| D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |