11.The suggestion the doctor made at the medical report was my mother shouldn't eat too much salt or sugar.( )
A. | that | B. | when | C. | which | D. | whether |
10.You not use your mobile phone in our school during the college entrance exam because a special device(设备)can disturb it.( )
A. | should | B. | might | C. | need | D. | must |
9."The lady carrying a baby, the bus first."The bus conductor(售票员)said politely with a smile,holding out her hand.( )
A. | get on | B. | gets on | C. | got on | D. | getting on |
8.Experts suggest that people,especially children,should listen to some enjoyable music watch TV while having dinner.( )
A. | more than | B. | less than | C. | other than | D. | rather than |
7.Charles Dickens died in 1870, tomb reads,"By his death,one of England's greatest writers is lost to the world."( )
A. | his | B. | who | C. | whose | D. | where |
6.How to be a good listener
Everyone loves a good listener.But there are more reasons to develop the skill of listening than to win hearts or popularity contests.
Listening heals hurts and builds bridges.It gives us the ability to understand and empathize,to view the world from our own point.It can bring us wisdom over and above mere intelligence.But most importantly,it allows us to give the people around us the gifts they crave(渴望)most-a sense of worth.
As it turns out,there's more to good listening than just keeping quiet and allowing someone to speak.Effective listening is actually a combination of two key communication skills:listening and verifying(核实,证实).
Even when we've managed to hear a person's entire message,we often interpret it wrong-according to our own understanding,experience,or prejudice.
As an effective listener,your goal is to hear and absorb what another has to say in exactly the way they mean it to be understood.Only then can you respond properly.
This is much easier read than done,so here are a few helpful tips:
1.Give the speaker your full attention.
Stop talking and remove all distractions.Turn off the TV,your phone,or computer.Watch your body language.The way you look at the speaker,or the way you stand or sit,makes a huge difference.The right listening body language communicates that we are listening openly and attentively,and puts the other person at ease.
2.Be patient.
Not everyone is a gifted speaker.Some people take longer to find the right word to make a point.Others are too worried to get their message across properly.If necessary,ask the speaker to explain further.It will help him/her speak more exactly and it will help you hear and understand better.
3.Keep your emotions in check.
If what someone is saying creates an emotional response in you,make an extra effort to listen carefully.When we're angry,frightened or upset,we often miss key parts of what is being said.
4.Hold your fire.
Don't jump to conclusions immediately.A good listener doesn't react until comprehension is complete.If you respond in a way that makes the other person defensive,even if you"win"the argument,you may lose something far more valuable.
5.Even if you think you understand,verify.
Never assume you got the message right.Pause,think about what was said,and then ask"Is this what you meant?"or"Am I understanding this right?"
6.Empathize
Take a moment to stand in the other person's shoes,to look at the situation from his/her point of view especially when you're being told something personal or painful,or something you strongly disagree with.The more shoes you are able to successfully stand in within your life time,the less puzzled you'll find your life and relationships to be.
Everyone loves a good listener.But there are more reasons to develop the skill of listening than to win hearts or popularity contests.
Listening heals hurts and builds bridges.It gives us the ability to understand and empathize,to view the world from our own point.It can bring us wisdom over and above mere intelligence.But most importantly,it allows us to give the people around us the gifts they crave(渴望)most-a sense of worth.
As it turns out,there's more to good listening than just keeping quiet and allowing someone to speak.Effective listening is actually a combination of two key communication skills:listening and verifying(核实,证实).
Even when we've managed to hear a person's entire message,we often interpret it wrong-according to our own understanding,experience,or prejudice.
As an effective listener,your goal is to hear and absorb what another has to say in exactly the way they mean it to be understood.Only then can you respond properly.
This is much easier read than done,so here are a few helpful tips:
1.Give the speaker your full attention.
Stop talking and remove all distractions.Turn off the TV,your phone,or computer.Watch your body language.The way you look at the speaker,or the way you stand or sit,makes a huge difference.The right listening body language communicates that we are listening openly and attentively,and puts the other person at ease.
2.Be patient.
Not everyone is a gifted speaker.Some people take longer to find the right word to make a point.Others are too worried to get their message across properly.If necessary,ask the speaker to explain further.It will help him/her speak more exactly and it will help you hear and understand better.
3.Keep your emotions in check.
If what someone is saying creates an emotional response in you,make an extra effort to listen carefully.When we're angry,frightened or upset,we often miss key parts of what is being said.
4.Hold your fire.
Don't jump to conclusions immediately.A good listener doesn't react until comprehension is complete.If you respond in a way that makes the other person defensive,even if you"win"the argument,you may lose something far more valuable.
5.Even if you think you understand,verify.
Never assume you got the message right.Pause,think about what was said,and then ask"Is this what you meant?"or"Am I understanding this right?"
6.Empathize
Take a moment to stand in the other person's shoes,to look at the situation from his/her point of view especially when you're being told something personal or painful,or something you strongly disagree with.The more shoes you are able to successfully stand in within your life time,the less puzzled you'll find your life and relationships to be.
(71)Effects/Advantages/Benefits of good listening | (72)Healing hurts. Building (73)bridges. Allowing us to (74)understand and empathize,and viewing the world in an all-round way. Bringing us wisdom over and above mere intelligence. (75)Making the people around us feel worthy. |
Components of effective listening | Good listening consists of two key communication skills:(76)listening and verifying. |
(77)Ways/Tips to be a good listener | Listening to the speaker openly and (78)attentively. Trying to be a (79)patient listener. Avoiding being affected by your emotions. Waiting before you take actions. Verifying. (80)Empathizing. |
3.-_______,I can attach no definite meaning to this rather grand sentence.
-Why not turn to your teacher for help?( )
-Why not turn to your teacher for help?( )
A. | As hard I might try | B. | Try hard as I might | ||
C. | As hard as I might try | D. | Try as hard as I might |
2.Due to the bad weather,the police had to _______ the search for the missing boy.( )
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A. | carry | B. | abandon | C. | conduct | D. | recommend |