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Because conflict and disagreements are part of all close relationships, couples need to learn strategies for managing conflict in a healthy and constructive way. Some couples just__50__ and deny the presence of any conflict in a relationship. __51__ ,denying the existence of conflict results in couples _52___ to solve their problems at early__53__ ,which can then lead to even greater problems later on .Not surprisingly, expressing anger and disagreement leads to lower marital (婚姻的)satisfaction at the beginning. However, this pattern of behavior _54___ increases in marital satisfaction over time. Research suggests that working through conflicts is an important predictor of marital satisfaction.
  So, what can you do to manage conflict in your own relationships? First, try to understand the other person’s point of view__55__ put yourself in his of her place. People who are _56___ to what their partner thinks and feels _57___ greater relationship satisfaction. For example, researchers found that among people in dating relationships  58____ marriages, those who can adopt their partner’s perspective show more positive emotions, more relationship-enhancing attributes and more constructive responses _59___ conflict.
  Second, because conflict and disagreements are an __60__ part of close relationships,people need to be able to apologize to their partner for wrongdoing and __61__ forgiveness from their partners for their own acts. Apologies minimize conflict, lead to forgiveness, and serve to restore relationship closeness. In line with this view, spouses(配偶) who are more forgiving show higher mental quality over time. Increasingly, apologizing can even have _62___ health benefits. For example, when people reflect on hurtful __63__ and grudges(怨恨),they show negative physiological(生理的) effects, including __64__  heart rate and blood pressure, compared to when they reflect on sympathetic perspective-taking and forgiving.

【小题1】
A.resolve B.regretC.abandon D.avoid
【小题2】
A.Besides B.ThereforeC.MoreoverD.However
【小题3】
A.trying  B.declining  C.failing  D.striving
【小题4】
A.ages   B.years   C.stages  D.intervals
【小题5】
A.prescribes  B.protests  C.proves  D.predicts
【小题6】
A.so  B.while  C.but  D.and
【小题7】
A.sensitive  B.superior  C.exclusiveD.efficient
【小题8】
A.expose  B.experience  C.explore  D.exploit
【小题9】
A.as long as B.as far as  C.as well as  D.as soon as
【小题10】
A.to  B.against  C.at  D.toward
【小题11】
A.absolute  B.inevitable C.essential D.obvious
【小题12】
A.require B.inquire  C.receive D.achieve
【小题13】
A.creative  B.positive  C.objective D.competitive
【小题14】
A.prospects  B.concepts C.memories D.outlooks
【小题15】
A.added  B.toughened  C.strengthened  D.increased


【小题1】D
【小题2】D
【小题3】C
【小题4】C
【小题5】D
【小题6】D
【小题7】A
【小题8】B
【小题9】C
【小题10】A
【小题11】B
【小题12】C
【小题13】B
【小题14】C
【小题15】D

解析试题分析:本文叙述了冲突和分歧是夫妻间的生活不可缺少的组成部分,一些夫妻不能在事件早期解决他们的问题,这可能会导致以后甚至会有更大的问题。要试着理解对方的观点和与对方换位思考一下。人们需要能为他们做错的事情向对方致歉,道歉能使冲突最小化,最后得到谅解。
【小题1】考查动词及上下文的呼应。resolve解决; regret后悔; abandon 放弃; avoid避免。结合空格旁边的连词and,可知前后为并列关系,由于后面给出的是deny,故在选项中找与deny意思相近的词即可。故选D。
【小题2】考查副词及上下文的呼应。besides此外,而且; therefore因此; moreover此外,而且; however可是。逻辑连词题,一般做法是看前后,找重复,体会变化。我们要兼顾上一句的信息,重复在于denying, conflict, couples基本上本句的开头部分是上一句的重复,但是变化也明显,本句最后讲到更大的问题,也就是把上一句基本都否定掉了,是转折关系。故本题选择However。另外本题也有一个小技巧,besides和moreover的意思和用法是完全一样的,可直接排除,降低题目难度。故选D。
【小题3】考查动名词及上下文的呼应。trying尝试; declining下降; failing失败; striving努力。根据下文which can then lead to even greater problems later  可知处理问题失败,故选C。
【小题4】考查名词及上下文的呼应。ages年龄; years年;at early stages在早期阶段; intervals间隔。否认冲突的存在导致了在早期阶段没有处理好他们的问题,故选C。
【小题5】考查动词及上下文的呼应。prescribes开药方; protests抗议; proves证明;predicts预言。不奇怪的是,在最初时期,表达愤怒和分歧导致了较低的婚姻满意度。根据空格后面的宾语increases(增加,增长),和主语pattern(样式,图案),再结合本句开头的however,前面讲低,后面增长,说明了空格处应该填写一个对未来的增长的预测。故选D。
【小题6】考查连词及上下文的呼应。so因此; while尽管; but但是; and表示前后是并列关系。所以说,在你自己的(婚姻)关系中,你要做些什么来管理冲突?试图想想其他人的观点并且可以换位思考一下,故选D。
【小题7】考查形容词及上下文的呼应。sensitive敏感的; superior优秀的; exclusive独有的;efficient生效的。那些对他们伴侣的想法和感觉敏感的人会经历更大的(婚姻)关系的满足感。故选A。
【小题8】考查动词及上下文的呼应。expose揭露,曝光; experience经历; explore探索;exploit开发。人们应该是讲经历了满足感。故选B。
【小题9】考查短语及上下文的呼应。as long as只要; as far as就……而言; as well as和; as soon as一……就。前面是恋爱关系,后面是婚姻,两者相似,故选as well as表示并列,故选C。
【小题10】考查介词及上下文的呼应。用to 表示对于冲突而言,故选A。
【小题11】考查形容词及上下文的呼应。absolute绝对的; inevitable必然的,不可避免的; essential必要的;obvious显然的。冲突和分歧是婚姻关系中一个不可避免的组成部分,故选B。
【小题12】考查动词及上下文的呼应。require要求; inquire询问; receive收到; achieve达到。人们需要因为做错了事而向对方道歉,并且也能得到对方的原谅,故选C。
【小题13】考查形容词及上下文的呼应。creative创造性的; positive积极的; objective客观的;competitive比赛的。渐渐地,道歉对身体有积极的健康的益处。故选B。
【小题14】考查名词及上下文的呼应。prospects前景; concepts概念; memories回忆; outlooks展望。当人们有受伤的回忆和怨恨时,故选C。
【小题15】考查形容词及上下文的呼应。added增加的; toughened坚韧的; strengthened加强的;   increased增强的。当人们有受伤的回忆和怨恨时,他们会产生消极的生理的影响,包括心率加快和血压升高。heart rate心率,表达心率加快应该用increased,故用D。
考点:人生百味类短文。
点评:做完形题时要看清上下文,找准定位词。充分利用文章的上下文和前后句,找到对选择有提示作用的词或句。这些词有时可能是同义词或反义词。通顺逻辑,寻求搭配。注意固定的搭配,包括动词与介词的搭配、动词与名词的搭配以及形容词与名词的搭配等,同时要根据内容选择正确的短语。扎实基础,搞清辨异。看清执行者,确定所选词。寻求上下逻辑,从容确定关系。了解生活常识,确定相关知识。

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