题目内容
3.ForgivenessTo forgive is a virtue,but no one has ever said it is easy.When someone has deeply hurt you,it can be extremely difficult to let go of your hate.However,forgiveness is possible,and it can be surprisingly beneficial to your physical and mental health.People who forgive show less sadness,anger and stress and more hopefulness,according to a recent research.(36)BTry the following steps:
Calm yourself.(37)FYou can take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure:a beautiful scene in nature,or someone you love.
Don't wait for an apology.Many times the person who hurt you does not intend to apologize.They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don't see things the same way.(38)G
Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean becoming friends again with the person who upset you.
Take the control away from your offender(冒犯者).Rethinking about your hurt,gives power to the person who caused you pain.Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings,learn to look for the love,beauty and kindness around you.
(39)DIf you understand your offender,you may realize that he or she was acting out of unawareness,fear,and even love.You may want to write a letter to yourself from your offender's point of view.
Don't forget to forgive yourself.(40)EBut it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don't do it.
A.Why should you forgive?
B.How should you start to forgive?
C.Recognize the benefits of forgiveness.
D.Try to see things from you offender's angle.
E.For some people,forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge.
F.To make your anger die away,try a simple stress-management technique.
G.If you wait for people to apologize,you could be waiting an awfully long time.
分析 本文主要介绍的是道歉的重要性.原谅冒犯你的人对你的身心健康大有裨益,但是该如何去原谅他们呢?可通过以下几个步骤:使自己冷静下来;不要等待他人道歉;摆脱冒犯者对你的控制;从冒犯者的角度看问题以及原谅自己.
解答 36.B 考查上下文理解判断能力.根据下文Try the following steps可知,试试以下措施,上文应是:应该怎样开始原谅他人呢?故选B.
37.F 考查上下文理解判断能力.根据上文Calm yourself要冷静,及下文You can take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure深呼吸,想象一些令人愉快的事情,可知空格处应是:让愤怒逐渐消散,尝试一个简单的压力管理技巧.故选F.
38.G 考查上下文理解判断能力.根据上文Don't wait for an apology.Many times the person who hurt you does not intend to apologize可知,不要等着他人道歉,伤害你的人不会想着向你道歉,由此可知,本段讲的是不能等着他人来给你道歉,下文应是:如果等他人来道歉,你可能会等相当长的时间.故选G.
39.D 考查上下文理解判断能力.根据下文If you understand your offender,you may realize that he or she was acting out of unawareness,fear,and even love可知,如果你理解惹怒你的人,你可能会意识到他是无意伤害你的,上文应是:试着站在对方的角度思考问题.故选D.
40.E 考查上下文理解判断能力.根据上文Don't forget to forgive yourself可知,要记得原谅你自己,下文应是:对一些人来说,自我原谅是最大的挑战.故选E.
点评 解答选句填空时应结合原文和选项有针对性的找出相关语句进行仔细分析,结合选项选出正确答案.推理判断题也是要在抓住关键句子的基础上合理的分析才能得出正确答案,切忌胡乱猜测,一定要做到有理有据.

A. | memorable | B. | appropriate | C. | imaginary | D. | respectful | ||||
E. | memorable | F. | imaginary |