题目内容
19．We can have conflicts with our important persons like friends，relatives etc．In a heated（61）argument（argue），we usually use rude words to made sure we gain an advantage（62）overthe other person．Then the whole situation goes badly．So we should make sure that there are no rude remarks and the situation（63）moves（move）in a positive direction．It's easy for us to think we're right and（64）ifsomething isn't working out，it must be someone else's fault．
（65）However，if you aim to solve a conflict，you should show some respect and allow the other party to express（66）themselves（they）．Using remark like，"I understand your concern on this"would make the other feel more appreciated．
Sometimes some people get too excited and many behave in the wrong way．This can cause a（67）worse（bad）situation．Actually，they should control their emotions and keep calm．This has to（68）be learned/leant（learn） through swlf-control．
The tips mentioned above are useful for most situations．However，we don't rule out the possibility that there are some people（69）whoalways want to create some sort of trouble for others．（70）Putting（put） in an effort to resolve a conflict with them may just not be a wise idea．The best way to deal with these people is to forget them．
分析 本文写了亲人朋友之间的冲突中我们应该注意的事项．
解答 61．argument 考查名词．根据句意：在热烈的争论中，所以介词in后面用名词argument．
62．over 考查介词． 根据句意：我们通常用粗鲁的话来确保我们比别人有优势． over是介词"超越，在…之上"．
63．moves 考查时态．根据句意：形势朝着积极的方向发展．文章的叙述用的是一般现在时，situation是名词"形式，局势"谓语动词用第三人称单数形式．
64．if 考查连词． 根据句意：如果事情不成功，那一定是别人的错．if是连词"如果"，引导条件状语从句．
65．However 考查连词．根据上下文的联系，下文主要说的是用尊敬对方让对方表达自己的观点，与上文的争吵是转折关系，因为有逗号隔开，所以用However．
66．themselves 考查代词．根据句意：你应该表现出一些尊重，让对方表达自己．express oneself"表达自己"，they的反身代词是themselves．
67．worse 考查比较级．在争论的过程中有些人有时候过于激动，就会有错误的行为，这会导致更糟的局面，与先前的情景相比，这种情况应该用比较级worse．
68．be learned/learnt 考查动词不定式的被动结构． 根据句意：这要学习自我控制．这一切this是被学习的内容，所以用被动语态，learn的过去分词有learned和leant．
69．who 考查定语从句．先行词是people，关系代词who在定语从句中做主语．
70．Putting 考查动名词．本句是动名词做主语，努力解决与他们的冲突Putting in an effort to resolve a conflict with them．
点评 语法填空是通过语篇在语境中考查语法知识的运用能力，在解题前应快速浏览短文掌握大意，在读懂短文的基础上，结合短文提供的特定的语言环境去逐句分析．要解决好语法填空，离不开坚实的语法知识，有了坚实的语法知识才能对语言进行正确的分析和判断，从而答对题目．
