Question

【题目】 Everyone wants actually the same thing in life and that is to exist and flourish (辉煌) .Living a long and fruitful life is a difficult thing to do when a person can't coexist with other people in harmony. Living in harmony not only helps others but it helps the person living the harmonious life.【1】

Avoid controversial topics with people. There are certain topics like religion and politics that can make another person embarrassed immediately. 【2】 This is especially important if you are very communicative.

Focus on the common things you have with other people rather than the differences【3】But too many times a person can focus on what other people do not like or believe，,and this can give them a negative (负面)opinion of others without even tiying to find some common ground on which they do agree.

【4】 Do not drift off or try to think of what you are going to say in response. You will be surprised how much people appreciate someone who is really listening without judging or arguing.

【5】 Let them understand that there are certain conversation topics and actions that you do not tolerate. It is up to you to set them and make people know and follow them. However, do not be argumentative about setting them.

Some people just cannot get along no matter what measure you take to make a relationship work. So just stay out of these people's way and let them live their own lives apart from you.

A.Then, how do you live happily with others?

B.Listen to other people when they talk to you.

C.Establish proper boundaries with people in your life.

D.Making boundaries is not selfish, so voice your limits.

E.Decide how much you are willing to listen to other people.

F.Most people can find at least a few topics on which they agree.

G.It is best to talk about movies or anything that does not lead to a conflict.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】A

【2】G

【3】F

【4】B

【5】C

【解析】

本文是一篇说明文，介绍了如何与别人和谐共处的几点建议。

【1】

空前一句说和谐共处不仅有助于别人，而且还有助于自己，下文又介绍了如何与人和谐共处的几点建议，此处需要一个承上启下的过渡句，既要对应上文提到的和谐共处话题，又要引出下文的建议，故A项（那么，你如何和别人一起快乐地生活呢？）符合语境。

【2】

空前说有些话题，比如宗教和政治，会让别人立刻感到尴尬，此处承接这一话题，讲的是你们可以谈论的话题，故G项（最好是谈论电影或任何不会导致冲突的事情）符合语境。

【3】

空前说关注你和别人的共同点而不是不同点，因此此处是说每个人都和别人有共同话题，故F项（大多数人都能找到至少几个他们认同的话题）符合语境。

【4】

空后说不要心不在焉，也不要试着去想你要说些什么作为回应，因此此处是说别人说话的时候，你要认真听，故B项（当别人和你说话时，要认真听）符合语境。

【5】

空后说让他们明白，有些谈话话题和行为是你不能容忍的，这说明你要与别人建立一定的界限，越界行为不能容忍，故C项（与生活中的人建立适当的界限）符合语境。