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Men's communication style is more direct£®They usually take a direct approach to a problem and suggest a solution£®Men often make decisions more quickly than women£®They also prefer to make decisions by themselves£®Women's communication style is to discuss problems and ask other people for their opinions£®Women like to talk with other people before they make a decision£®
£¨37£©DWomen like to discuss personal issues and talk about their feelings£®Talking about problems is important in friendships for women£®Even at school or on the job£¬women are more comfortable talking about personal topics and feelings£®£¨38£©C£®Many men don't like to talk about emotions and feelings£®Men like to talk about current events£¬business£¬and personal accomplishments£®In conversations£¬it is important for men to see who is leader in the group£®Men often talk about important things they have done£®Men build friendships by doing activities together£®£¨39£©A£®
£¨40£©FFirst£¬women may think it is important to discuss how they feel about a problem£®Men£¬however£¬prefer to come to a solution£®Second£¬men often think that women are complaining£¬because women want to continue talking about their feelings£®Men offer a solution to a problem£¬and then want to talk about something else£®The third problem is that women often think that men don't want to discuss things£®Actually£¬men just-want to discuss different things£®As men and women learn more about their different communication styles£®they can better understand each other£®
A£®On the other hand£¬women build friendships by sharing feelings£®
B£®There can hardly be any real friendships between men and women£®
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D£®The topics of conversation are also different between men and women£®
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F£®Different communication styles cause problems in relationships in several ways£®
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For home stuff£¬being organized means having a place to put your things and putting them back when you finish using them£®£¨51£©F It means keeping your schoolbag£¬your shoes£¬and your clean underwear in the same places so you always know where to find them£®
£¨52£©B Planning means deciding what you will do and when you will do it£®Calendars£¬lists£¬and schedules can help you plan£®£¨53£©E Making a schedule or a"to-do"list for yourself is a good idea£®Looking at your list helps you keep track of what you need to do£®Add new things as you get assignments£¬and check off things when you've done them£®Use your list to help you decide which thing is the most important to work on first£®
It takes some extra efforts to organize yourself and your stuff£®£¨54£©DThe less time you spend hunting around for things or panicking about homework£¬the more time you have for better things£¬like reading a good book or playing£®
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