题目内容
话题链接:近年来,随着网络的飞速发展,人们网上交流的日益频繁,网上交友也日渐增多,网上交友到底如何?请看下文,然后想一想。
Friendship in InternetIn so many ways, cyberspace(网络空间)mirrors the real world.People ask for information, play games, and share hobby tips there.Others buy and sell products.Still others look for friendship, or even love.
Unlike the real world, however, your knowledge about a person is limited to words on a computer screen.Identity and appearance mean very little in cyberspace.Rather, a person’s thoughts-or at least the thoughts they type-are what really count.So even the shyest person can become a chat-room star.Usually, this“faceless”communication doesn’t create problems.Identity doesn’t really matter when you’re in a chat room discussing politics or hobbies.
In fact, this emphasis on the ideas themselves makes the Internet a great place for exciting conversation.Where else can so many people come together to chat their interests?
But some Internet users want more than just someone to chat with.They are looking for serious love relationships.Is cyberspace a good place to find love?The answer depends on whom you ask.Some of these relationships actually succeed.Others fail miserably.
Supporters of online relationships say that the Internet allows people to get to know each other intellectually(理智)first.Personal appearance doesn’t get in the way.But critics of online relationships argue that no one can truly know another person in cyberspace.Why?Because the Internet gives users a lot of control over how others view them.Internet users can carefully play with their words to fit whatever image they want to give.And they don’t have to worry about what their“speechless”communication is doing for their image.In a sense, they are not really themselves.
All of this may be fine if the relationship stays in cyberspace.But not knowing about a person is a big problem in a love relationship.With so many unknowns its easy to let one’s imagination…
想一想:Discuss with your classmates about how to deal with the friends on the Internet?
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