题目内容
【题目】请认真阅读下列短文, 并根据所读内容在文章后表格中的空格里填入一个最恰当的单词。
注意: 每个空格只填 1 个单词。请将答案写在答题卡上相应题号的横线上。
There are times when you want to know how to make friends. Maybe you are just not confident because you're afraid that people may not react the way you want them to. But it is not very hard to make friends; it is just what you think it is that makes you not willing to do it. Continue reading to find out how!
Don’t be mean or rude; you do not want to lose any potential friends. Be nice and friendly. If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out there somehow in order to meet people. If you just sit alone, friends might come to you, but the odds are much smaller. If you're still in school, sit somewhere with other people. It doesn’t have to be the 'popular' or 'cool' table, or a crowded one, but one with at least two other people. Hang out with many others. The popular kids won’t matter when you’re older, but a true friend will be there for you forever.
There is no necessary need to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make friends with them. But if you like a specific topic, try searching for just an organization or a club where you can find people who are also interested in it and become a member of it. It's a great way to meet new local people.
Volunteering is also a great way for people of all ages to meet others. By working together you build bonds with people, and you might meet others who have a passion for changing things the way you do, that is, a common cause.
There are many ways to start a conversation-a comment about your immediate environment (The weather is a classic: 'At least it's not raining like last week! '), a request for help ('Can you help me carry a few boxes, if you have a minute? ' or 'Can you help me decide which one of these is a better gift for my mum? ') or a compliment ('I love your shoes. '). Follow up immediately with a related question: Do you like this warm weather? What kinds of gifts do you normally buy for your mums? Where did you get shoes like that? Also, make a small talk. Remember the 30% talking and 70% listening ratio during small talk.
You've probably heard of fair-weather friends. They're the ones who are happy to be around you when things are going well, but are nowhere to be found when you really need them. Part of being a friend is being prepared to make sacrifices of your time and energy in order to help your friends out. If a friend needs help with an unpleasant chore, or if he or she just needs a shoulder to cry on, be there. If your friend tells a joke, laugh with him or her. Never complain about a friend. If you and your friend agree to meet somewhere, don’t be late, and do not stand him or her up. If you're not going to make it on time or make it at all, call him or her as soon as you realize it. Apologize and ask to reschedule. Be someone who people know that they can count on.
In a word, when you get along with people around you, it's important for you to actively approach others, start a small conversation freely and then develop a close relationship with others.
Introduction | Sometimes you want to find ways to make friends, but you【1】confidence. |
Spend more time around people | If you don’t want to lose any potential friends, be nice and friendly to others. |
【2】an organization or a club | ▲You don't【3】need to have a lot of common interests with people. ▲Some of the most rewarding friendships are between two people who don't have much in common at all. |
Volunteer | When volunteering with others, you can keep in【4】with people and might meet those who can change the way that you do. |
Start a conversation | ▲You can start a conversation by【5】on the environment or make a small talk. ▲Keep the 30% talking and 70% listening ratio in【6】during small talks. |
Be nice and loyal to a friend | ▲Sometimes, you have to【7】your time and energy when your friends need help. ▲If a friend needs help when he or she is in trouble, or if he or she wants to 【8】joy or sorrow with you, be there. ▲Don't make【9】about your friends. ▲Don't be late for your appointments. |
【10】 | Only when you actively approach others can you make friends with others much better. |
【答案】
【1】lack
【2】Join
【3】necessarily
【4】touch/contact
【5】commenting
【6】mind
【7】sacrifice
【8】share
【9】complaints
【10】Conclusion/Summary
【解析】
这是一篇说明文。文章主要告诉读者如何交到朋友的一些方法。
【1】考查动词。根据第一段的There are times when you want to know how to make friends. Maybe you are just not confident because you're afraid that people may not react the way you want them to.可知,有时候人们想知道如何交朋友。或许你缺乏自信,因为你担心他们反应的方式不是你所想的。故此处用“缺乏自信”符合文意,故填lack。
【2】考查动词。根据第三段的But if you like a specific topic, try searching for just an organization or a club where you can find people who are also interested in it and become a member of it.可知,如果你喜欢一个具体的话题,尽量找这样的一个组织或俱乐部,在这些地方你可以找到和你有同样兴趣的人,然后成为其中一员。故此处用“加入俱乐部或组织”符合文意,故填Join。
【3】考查副词。根据第三段的There is no necessary need to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make friends with them.可知,没有必要为了交朋友而和人们有很多共同的兴趣。故此处用“不一定”符合文意,故填necessarily。
【4】考查动词。根据第四段的Volunteering is also a great way for people of all ages to meet others. By working together you build bonds with people,可知,志愿者工作是一个让所有年龄的人都可以遇到其他人的好方法,通过一起工作,你可以与人之间建立纽带。故此处用“保持联系”符合文意,故填contact/touch。
【5】考查动名词。根据第五段的There are many ways to start a conversation-a comment about your immediate environment可知,有很多方式可以开始一次对话,例如评论你身边的环境。故此处用“评论环境”符合文意,故填commenting。
【6】考查名词。根据倒数第二段的Remember the 30% talking and 70% listening ratio during small talk.可知,要记得在闲聊时听占70%,说占30%。故此处用keep in mind“牢记”符合文意,故填mind。
【7】考查动词。根据倒数第二段的Part of being a friend is being prepared to make sacrifices of your time and energy in order to help your friends out.可知,作为朋友其中一部分是要时刻准备着牺牲你的时间和精力来帮助你的朋友。故此处用“牺牲”符合文意,故填sacrifice。
【8】考查动词。根据倒数第二段的If a friend needs help with an unpleasant chore, or if he or she just needs a shoulder to cry on, be there. If your friend tells a joke, laugh with him or her.可知,如果一个朋友需要处理一件不愉快的日常事务,或如果他/她只是需要一个肩膀靠着哭泣,去她/他身边。如果你的朋友讲笑话,陪着她/他一起笑。故此处用“分担快乐忧愁”符合文意,故填share。
【9】考查名词。根据倒数第二段的Never complain about a friend.可知,绝不要抱怨朋友。故此处用make complaints“抱怨”符合文意,故填complaints。
【10】考查名词。根据最后一段的In a word, when you get along with people around you, it's important for you to actively approach others, start a small conversation freely and then develop a close relationship with others.可知,总之,当和身边人相处时,积极地接近他人,自然而然地开始聊天,然后和他们发展亲密的关系对你来说是重要的。故此处用“总结”符合文意,故填Conclusion/Summary。