题目内容
Research shows that childhood friendships are important indicators of future success and social adjustment. Children's relationships with peers (同龄人) strongly influence their success in school, and children with fewer friends are more likely dropping out of school, becoming sad and other problems.
Making and Keeping Friends Is More Than Child's Play
When 6-year-old Rachel returned to school on a recent Monday morning, her eyes immediately scanned the playground for her friend Abbie. Though they were only separated by a weekend, the girls "ran right into each other's arms and hugged," recalls Rachel's mother Kathryn Willis of Gilbert. "It was like a scene from a movie."
Most parents instinctively (本能地) know that having friends is good for their child. Experts agree that friendship is not simply child's play, but a powerful predictor of social adjustment throughout life.
A Skill for Life
"Childhood friendships serve as a very important training ground for adulthood," says Dr. Robbie Adler-Tapia, psychologist with the Center for Children's Health & Life Development.
Researcher William Hartup states, "Peer relations contribute significantly to both social and cognitive (认知的) development." Hartup concludes that the single best childhood predictor of adult social adaptation is not school grades or classroom behavior, but rather, how well a child gets along with other children.
The work of Arizona State University proves that just as being able to make and keep friends is beneficial to kids, so is the lack of friends detrimental.
Good Friendships Don't Just Happen
Experts agree that it is basic for children to develop high-quality friendships. But, researchers warn, these friendships don't necessarily just happen. Often, a good friendship begins with involved (卷入,牵连)parents.
Valley psychologist Dr. Lynne Kenney Markan believes kids should be taught social skills in much the same way they are taught math and reading.
Bad Company
Many parents worry about the quality as well as the quantity of their child's friendships. "When she was in 1st grade, her supposed 'best friend' began calling her names and threatening to hurt her," says Mindy Miller. "My daughter wasn't allowed to talk to or even look at other girls in her class. It really crushed (压跨) her spirit. I told my daughter she didn't need a 'friend' like that."
"I'll bend over backwards to help my son get together with a friend I think is good for him," Adler-Tapia says. "I don't look at it as manipulation (操纵), just positive parental involvement. "
【小题1】The example of Rachel and Abbie is used to show that ________.
A.childhood friendship is of great benefit to their growth |
B.a positive friendship helps children solve emotional and physical problems |
C.it is a proven(被证明的) fact that peer friendship is the most rewarding experience throughout life |
D.Rachel missed her friend Abbie very much because of their separation of one weekend |
A.valuable | B.disappointing | C.accurate | D.harmful |
A.social skills and good study habits |
B.school grades and classroom behaviors |
C.academic success and social adaptation |
D.positive parental involvement and social skills |
A.parents should regard making friends as something that just happens |
B.it's wise for parents to support and encourage healthy peer relationships |
C.parents only need to help their children to deal with difficult social situations |
D.parents are supposed to encourage their children to make as many friends as they can |
【小题1】A
【小题2】D
【小题3】D
【小题4】B
解析试题分析:文章介绍了童年时期的友谊对孩子的重要性,父母应该必要的参与帮助孩子建立健康的友谊。
【小题1】推理题:从第三段的句子:Most parents instinctively (本能地) know that having friends is good for their child.可知举Rachel 和 Abbie的例子,可以说明童年时代的友谊有益于孩子的成长。选A
【小题2】猜词题:从前面的句子:beneficial可知缺乏友谊是有害的。选D
【小题3】细节题:从Good Friendships Don't Just Happen 这部分的内容,可知好的友谊是由于家长的参与和社交技能。选D
【小题4】推理题:从最后一段的句子:"I'll bend over backwards to help my son get together with a friend I think is good for him," 可知Dr. Robbie Adler-Tapia 认为父母支持鼓励健康的同龄人的友谊的明智的。选B
考点:考查社会现象类短文
点评:这是篇议论文,阅读本文时要注意作者组织本文的结构:引题——论据——论点,只有把握了作者的中心论点,做题时才不会偏离议论中心,文章里面引用了一些人的话,题目设置就是围绕这些不同的观点的,找到正确的句子,进行判断。
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