题目内容
Certain people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend all hour with them and feel as if you’ve known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is,we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills,they will help you put people at ease,and make friends with them quickly.
First of all,good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone,no matter how shy they ale,will answer a question. One well-known businessman says,”At business lunches,I always ask people what they did this morning. It’s a common question. but it will get things going. ”From there you can move on to other matters sometimes to really personal questions. And how they answer will let you know how far you can go.
Second,once good talkers have asked questions they listen for the answer. This point seems clear but it isn’t. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out,you really have to listen carefully.
Real listening means certain things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic,you can take it as a fact that he’ll be really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words,but to tones(语调)of voice. If the voice sounds dull,then,it's time for you to change the subject.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion of parting. if you’re saying good―bye,you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you. ”If you want to see that person again,don’t keep it secret. Let people know what you feel,and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.
72. In the passage,the author mainly .
A. introduces some skills of good talkers
B. persuades us to become good talkers
C. teaches us how to begin a conversation
D. describes the kinds of good speakers
73. Asking questions might be quite a good way .
A. to make more and more new friends
B. for you to begin your business talks
C. to get the conversation going well
D. to make a lasting impression on others
74. It can be inferred from the passage that good talkers .
A. always speak in a gentle way
B. never talk too much or too little
C. are good at making any topic interesting
D. know how and when to change the topic
75. From the passage,the author implies you’ll like to stay with certain people Because .
A. they know how to get along with others
B. you can often get much help from them
C. they are always glad to do anything for you
D. they will never get you into trouble
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