题目内容
_________tired from her typing, Julia decided to take a walk outside.
A. To get B. To have got C. Getting D. Got
After a very busy afternoon, as I walked into my house, I heard the phone ringing. It was my friend Lydia, upset over an argument with her husband. My usual approach is to offer advice, but this time, extremely tired from chores, I simply pulled off my coat, sat down in a chair and listened to my friend's frustration and sadness. Without the disturbance of judgment or the desire to comfort her, I stayed totally quiet while she talked. Eventually Lydia's depression eased and we said our goodbyes. The next day she phoned to thank me. "I'm so grateful for the way you helped me through this," she said.
At first I was surprised. After all, I had done nothing except be there for her. But after I had my own venting(发泄的) experience with another friend later that evening, I realized that my focused silence had some value. In fact, most relationship experts agree that talk is cheap; it's listening that's rare and valuable. It allows you not only to hear what the other person is saying, but also to have a clear understanding of her thoughts and feelings. And for the speaker, that level of understanding translates into concern and respect.
Unfortunately, listening isn't as easy as it sounds. Thanks to schedules filled with family and work, multitasking has become the barrier(障碍) to listening. My tiredness may have been the only thing stopping me from folding laundry or checking my e-mail while Lydia talked that afternoon.
Another barrier to listening is our listening system: Most of us take in only about half of what's being said during a conversation, according to the International Listening Association. Research shows that we speak at 125 to 150 words per minute, yet think at 500 words a minute. Therefore, because we think much more quickly than we speak, it is easy for us to lose our concentration when listening to speakers.
While it can be hard to focus at times, it's a skill worth developing. With a little practice — employing some techniques— you can become a better listener.
【小题1】 In Paragraph 2, the author mainly talks about ____.
A.the importance of listening | B.the importance of venting anger |
C.her own listening experience | D.her own venting experience |
A.we think much more quickly than we speak |
B.we can only understand about half of what we hear |
C.there is not much thinking time available while we are listening |
D.we lose our concentration easily while we are listening |
A.Why listening is valuable. | B.What we should do while listening |
C.How to become a good listener | D.How to stop drifting off while listening. |
I wandered in the park. The park bench was___21___ as I sat down to read beneath the long, straggly (蔓延的) branches of an old willow tree. I was disappointed by life with ___22___ reason to frown, for the world was intent on dragging me down.
___23___ that weren't enough to ruin my day, a young boy out of ___24___ approached me, all tired from play. He stood right before me and said with great excitement, "Look what I found!"
In his hand was a flower, and what a ___25___ sight, with its petals(花瓣) all worn --- not enough rain, or too little light. I faked a small ___26___, wanting him to take his dead flower and leave, and then ___27___.
But instead of leaving he sat next to my side and placed the flower to his nose and declared with surprise, "It surely smells pretty and it's beautiful, too. That's why I picked it; here, it's for you."
The weed before me was dying or dead. Not brilliant colors, orange, yellow or red. But I knew I must ___28___ it, or he might never leave. So I reached for the flower, and replied, "Just what I need."
But ___29___ him placing the flower in my hand, he held it mid-air without ___30___ or plan. It was then that I noticed for the very first time, that young boy could not see: he was blind.
My ___31___ trembled, and tears shone like the sun as I ___32___ him for picking the very best one. "You're welcome," he smiled, and then ran off to play, not ___33___ of the impact he'd had on my day.
I sat there and wondered how he ___34___ to see a self-pitying woman beneath an old willow tree. How did he ___35___ my difficult situation? ___36___ from his heart, he'd been blessed with true ___37___.
At last I could see, ___38___ the eyes of a blind child, the problem was not with the ___39___; the problem was me. And for all of those times I myself had been ___40___, I vowed(发誓) to see beauty, and appreciate every second that's mine.
I held that wilted(枯萎) flower up to my nose and breathed in the fragrance of a beautiful rose and smiled as that young boy.
1.A. equipped B. painted C. deserted D. taken
2.A. good B. temporary C. opposite D. mistaken
3.A. For fear B. As if C. Even though D. Now that
4.A. happiness B. fortune C. question D. breath
5.A. negative B. serious C. ridiculous D. pitiful
6.A. gift B. preference C. discussion D. smile
7.A. turned away B. wandered off C. stood up D. set out
8.A. take B. adjust C. comfort D. submit
9.A. in spite of B. instead of C. in case of D. because of
10.A. connection B. delay C. hesitation D. reason
11.A. heart B. hands C. voice D. legs
12.A. praised B. thanked C. approved D. delighted
13.A. hopeful B. content C. aware D. successful
14.A. managed B. promised C. desired D. accomplished
15.A. get across B. know of C. care about D. deal with
16.A. Actually B. Somehow C. Obviously D. Perhaps
17.A. love B. experience C. sight D. power
18.A. With B. Across C. Around D. Through
19.A. worldB. flower C. complaint D. appearance
20.A. particularB. unforgettable C. blindD. sensitive