Question

根据短文内容，从下框的A—F选项中选出能概括每一段主题的最佳选项。选项中有一项为多余项(E涂AB,F涂AC)

A Avoid asking your child too many questions

B Tell your child stories about your growing up

C Don’t judge or criticize your child

D Listen to your kids with respect

E Provide pressure-free conversation opportunities

F Ask children gently what they think

   If your child has gone from a continuous chatterbox to making conversations that consist mostly of yes and no, it’s time to consider these tips on how to talk to kids, so you’ll know what’s going on in your child’s world.

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The quickest way to get kids to shut up and, as a result, shut you out of their lives is to continuously press them about things. A more effective way is to sit back and patiently wait for them to open up in a low-stress family and then be prepared to listen.

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Parents can sometimes make kids at a young age decide it is best not to talk about something when they are criticized. If you really want to know what’s on your child’s mind, then avoid passing judgment and focus instead on why something seems important to your child.

3.

If you want to raise a creative and independent thinker, stop telling your child what he ought to feel or think. You can gently encourage additional conversations by simply asking why he feels the way he does or what he would do in a certain situation.

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You may think you’re just asking questions out of curiosity when communicating with your child, but an endless stream of questions about what they did, whether everyone got along, if they went to the bathroom, ect., are enough to make anyone shut up! Practice patience and let your kids open up on their terms.

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Kids can relate to you and other adults when you tell your stories happening when you were their age. Talking to kids by telling them about things like something embarrassing that happened or the first crush(迷恋) you had helps them to connect with you and understand that you might actually know what they are going through!

 

Answer 1

【答案】

1.E

2.C

3.F

4.A

5.B

【解析】

试题分析：本文讲述的一些与孩子交流时的一些有效的建议，能够让我们和孩子更好的沟通。

1.E 根据本段最后一句A more effective way is to sit back and patiently wait for them to open up in a low-stress family and then be prepared to listen.可知是关于一个没有压力的谈话的机会。

2.C 根据本段If you really want to know what’s on your child’s mind, then avoid passing judgment and focus instead on why something seems important to your child.

可知讲述的是不要随便下判断或者批评孩子。

3.F 根据本段You can gently encourage additional conversations by simply asking why he feels the way he does or what he would do in a certain situation.说明询问孩子的方式要温柔，故F项符合段意。

4.A 根据本段1,2行You may think you’re just asking questions out of curiosity when communicating with your child, but an endless stream of questions about what they did,可知有时候我们的问题太多了，应该避免问太多的问题，而是让孩子自己说。故A正确。

5.B 根据第一句Kids can relate to you and other adults when you tell your stories happening when you were their age.可知是建议我们给孩子讲述我们自己的年轻时的故事。

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