题目内容
Rather than talk about how he feels, often a man would express his love by buying the woman cosmetics (化妆品), or bringing home a flower, or giving up the control of the remote (遥控器).
And when men do talk, they’d prefer to talk about actions rather than emotions. For example, a lot of men would choose to express their long-range faith in a relationship by talking about next summer’s vacation plans, not by starting a conversation about undying love.
Men just prefer to say their plans with plane tickets, rather than poetry. It’s one of the reasons why men are more comfortable talking at work (the practical world) than they are at home (the castle that emotion built). But you can bring out his great communicator by making him feel more like he’s operating in the work mode, even when the topic at hand is your love life.
When men talk less and women want more, the conflict can escalate. Like when a policeman is questioning an unwilling witness, more silence equals more questions. A full 65 percent of men we surveyed recently told us that they don’t want their partners to ask them more questions about themselves.
It’s clear that some men are just tired of feeling like they’re on the witness stand. They’re not necessarily hiding anything; many men simply prefer not to have to tell confusing feelings that they may not even understand themselves.
An age-old method can make things better: back off a little, give him room to operate in a conversation, and he’s more likely to open up
- 1.
According to the author, men feel more comfortable when talking
- A.actions
- B.feelings
- C.long-term friendship
- D.conversations
- A.
- 2.
How can women communicate more successfully with men?
- A.They may give men a surprise by buying plane tickets
- B.They can ask men if they have a great time during working
- C.They might create a warm home environment first of all
- D.They can give men the feeling that they are talking at work
- A.
- 3.
The underlined word “escalate” has the similar meaning to
- A.decrease
- B.disappear
- C.change
- D.increase
- A.
- 4.
From the text it can be inferred that
- A.women are better at writing poems about emotions than men
- B.it is natural for women to be fond of finding the faults of men
- C.men are more interested in learning more about their partners
- D.men prefer to pour out their hearts in a forgiving environment
- A.
试题分析:本文叙述了人们在交流时,男士更喜欢用行动来向女士表达感情,男士更愿意谈的是行动而不是感情,女士和男士交流最多的是工作上的事情,而男士如果给一个宽松的环境他们很容易敞开心扉。
1.细节理解题。根据And when men do talk, they’d prefer to talk about actions rather than emotions. 故选A。
2.细节理解题。根据t’s one of the reasons why men are more comfortable talking at work (the practical world) than they are at home (the castle that emotion built).故选D。
3.词义猜测题。根据When men talk less and women want more, the conflict因为前面说的多与少是矛盾的,所以可以猜出它是“增长”的意思,故选D。
4.推理判断题。根据give him room to operate in a conversation, and he’s more likely to open up.在宽松的坏境下,男士更容易敞开心扉,故选D。
考点:日常生活类短文阅读。
点评:做推理题干扰选项的特点夸大事实:一是对于原文中的细节或论断的某方面程度进行了夸大处理。二是无中生有:捏造原文并不存在的信息,并以此作为依据进行推理。三是掺入常识:根据考生已有的常识是正确的,但却不是基于文章。四是推理过头:引申过度,使结论过于绝对化。知道了这些特点在容易排除干扰项进而做出正确的判断。
People often say that the Englishman’s home is his castle. They mean that the home is very important and personal to him. Most people in Britain live in houses rather than flats, and many people own their homes. This means that they can make them individual; they can paint them, and change them in any way they like. Most houses have a garden, even if it is a very small one, and the garden is usually loved. The house and the garden are the private space of the individual.
People usually like to mark their space. Are you sitting now in your home or on a train? Have you marked the space around yourself as yours ? If you are on the train you may put your coat or small bag on the seat beside you. If you share a flat you may have one corner or chair which is your own.
Once I was traveling on a train to London. I was in a section for four people and there was a table between us .The man on the space on my side of the table at all. I was angry. Maybe he thought that he owned the whole table .I had read a book about non-verbal communication, so I took various papers out of my bag and put them on his briefcase! When I did this he stiffened and his eyes nearly popped out of his head. I had invaded his space! A few minutes later I took my papers off his case in order to read them. He immediately moved his case to his side of the table. Of course, it is possible that he just wanted to be helpful to me!
If you are visiting another country you may feel that you don’t have any private space. Hotel rooms look much the same in every country in the world. All day long ,you share public spaces with other people. You see the local people in their private spaces and you feel lonely and “outside”. Local people can create their private spaces by talking about things you don’t know about .And you even feel that they like you to be outside them so that they will enjoy being inside even more! This is one of the difficulties of being a traveler !But if you understand it then it helps you .Haven’t you enjoyed being part of a group and “owning” a bit of space?
1.The writer was angry as he was traveling on a train to London because______.
A.he had no place to sit |
B.someone had invaded his “space” |
C.too many people shared a section with him |
D.some other people talked about things he didn’t know about |
2.“… you feel lonely and ‘outside’” in paragraph 4 means that_______.
A.you are alone outside the house |
B.you feel lonely because you travel on your own |
C.you are alone and therefore you go outside to have some fun |
D.you feel lonely and you don’t belong to that place or that group of people |
3.Which of the following is TRUE according to the passage?
A.British people dislike marking their space. |
B.You always feel at home in another country. |
C.Most British people prefer living in houses to flats. |
D.You can’t mark your private space in a foreign country. |
4.Tha main purpose of the passage is to tell readers to _______.
A.own private spaces by living in houses |
B.have one corner of their own in public places |
C.realize the importance of “space” in communication |
D.create their private spaces by talking with local people |
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For 52 years my father got up every morning at 5: 30 a. m., except Sunday, and went to work.I __1__saw my father home from work ill.He had no hobbies, __2__taking care of his family. For 22 years, __3__I left home for college, my father__4__me every Sunday at 9?00 a. m..He was always interested in my__5__, or how my family was doing, and I never once heard him__6__ about his lot (生活状况) in life.The calls even came when he and my mother were in other states. Nine years ago when I__7__my first house, my father,67 years old, spent three days__8__my house.He would not__9__me to pay someone to have it done.All he __10__was a cup of tea, a paint brush and to talk to him.But I was too__11__.I had a law practice to run, and I could not take__12__ to hold the brush, or talk to my father.__13__things happened several times later. The morning on Sunday.January 16,1996, my father telephoned me__14__, this time from my sister's home in Florida.But the__15__came again at 4?40 p. m.that day.My father was in the__16__in Florida with an aneurysm (动脉瘤). I got on an airplane__17__, and on the way, I__18__of all the times I had not taken the time to talk to my father.I determined that when I arrived, I would__19__for the lost time, and have a nice long talk with him. I arrived in Florida at 11:30 p. m., my father had__20__at 9?12 p. m..This time it was he who did not have time to talk, or to wait for me. | ||||
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