Question

Children are great. However, being a parent to a child can be very challenging. In your child’s preschool years he is sure to test you to see what he can and can’t get away with. Ensuring your child behaves himself is easier said than done. But you can minimize(最小化)frustrations and enjoy every moment you have with your child by the following.

Spend quality time with your child. Try putting off some work to spend time with your child. Play with him or read him a book. By spending quality time with him every day you are letting your child know that you are concerned about him.

State your rules in black and white. At first, it may be tough for you to carry them out just because of your child’s too much crying, and you have to give in to him at times. But in the long term, by sticking to your rules, you are letting your child know what behaviour you will and will not bear.

Punishment should be avoided if possible. It will deeply affect your child’s physical and mental health. It you want to correct his mis behavior, do it in a friendly way.

You children copy their parents’ behavior. If you are trying to teach your child to always be kind to others, your behavior needs to suggest that. By being on your best behavior in front of your child you will set a wonderful example to him. Your child will only be this age once. Allow your child to make his own decisions. Let him make mistakes sometimes so he will learn to be more responsible for his actions.

Another thing that you have to remember is to let your child understand that his actions always affect other people and his misbehavior is not the solution to his problem.

By following those above, you are on your way to having a well-behaved child and getting along well with him.

Title: How to raise 1._______ I. Difficulty It is 2. ______to shape a kid. II.3. _______ l Spare some time with your kid and let him know 4. _______. l Be consistent in carrying out 5. _______. l Correct your kid’s misbehavior in a friendly way rather than 6. _______. l Make yourself a good 7. ______ to your kid. l Give your kid 8. ______ to arrange his own life. l Help your kid know 9. _______ have an effect on others and his misbehavior makes no sense. III. 10. _______ Your kid will behave himself and you will have a good relationship with him.

 

Answer 1

【答案】

  a well-behaved child                    

  challenging

 Tips/Advice/Suggestions                   

  your concern

 your rules                           

 punish him

  example                             

  freedom

  his actions                             

 Conclusion

【解析】

试题分析：

  a well-behaved child 主旨大意题。本文主要讲述的是如何抚育一个有良好行为的孩子。

  challenging 原词再现。根据第一段第一行However, being a parent to a child can be very challenging可知教育孩子很困难。

 Tips/Advice/Suggestions   总结归纳题。根据第一段最后一句But you can minimize(最小化)frustrations and enjoy every moment you have with your child by the following.说明接下来都是一些具体的建议。

 your concern 原词再现。根据第二段最后一句By spending quality time with him every day you are letting your child know that you are concerned about him.

  your rules   总结归纳。根据第三段State your rules in black and white.说明我们要坚持我们的规则。

 punish him 总结归纳题。根据Punishment should be avoided if possible.

It you want to correct his mis behavior, do it in a friendly way.可知要用一个友好的方式来纠正孩子的错误，尽量避免惩罚。

  example  原词再现。根据文章倒数第二段第3行By being on your best behavior in front of your child you will set a wonderful example to him.

  freedom 词义转换，根据倒数第二段第四行Allow your child to make his own decisions.

  his actions  原词再现。根据倒数第二段倒数2,3行Another thing that you have to remember is to let your child understand that his actions always affect other people。

  Conclusion 总结归纳。根据文章最后一段内容可知这是文章最后的结论。

考点：考查任务型阅读

点评：本文属于任务型阅读，在完成此类题目时，要仔细阅读短文和表格，根据文章的篇章结构找出原文中的相应的语群，从同义词，近义词，反义词等角度出发，寻找原词再现，进行归纳总结，确定合适的答案。