In most cultures, when you meet acquaintances for the first time during a day, it is normal to greet them.The main purpose of this greeting is to build up a good relationship between the people concerned, and each language usually has a number of set phrases which can be used for this purpose.Sometimes there can be considerable differences in the type of phrases which can be used, and cultural misunderstanding can easily result.The following is a true example.
A young British woman went to Hong Kong to work, and at the time of her arrival she knew nothing ?about? the Chinese culture or language.On her way to school one day she went to the bank to get some money.To her surprise, the bank clerk asked her if she had had her lunch.She was extremely surprised at such a question because in the British culture it would be regarded as an indirect invitation to lunch.Between unmarried young people it can also indicate the young man’s interest in dating the girl; so since this bank clerk was a complete stranger to the British girl, she was very much surprised and hastily commented that she had eaten already.
After this she proceeded to school and was even more surprised when one of the teachers asked her the same question.By now, she realized that it could not be an invitation, but was puzzled as to why they asked it.In the following days, she was asked the same question again and again, and she spent hours trying to work out why so many people kept asking her this.
Eventually she came to a conclusion:the people must be concerned about her health.She was somewhat underweight at the time, and so she concluded they must be worried that she was not eating properly!Only much later did she discover that the question had no real significance at all-it was merely a greeting.
(1)
The main idea of the first paragraph is ________.
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A.
cultural differences can be the main reason for misunderstandings
B.
differences in greetings may lead to cultural misunderstandings
C.
different people should use different greetings in order to avoid misunderstandings
D.
greetings are a number of set phrases which can be used to build up a good relationship between the people concerned
(2)
When the British woman was asked if she had had her lunch.She was surprised because ________.
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A.
she bad already eaten her lunch at home
B.
she didn’t want to have lunch with the bank clerk
C.
she regarded it as an indirect invitation to lunch
D.
she didn’t know why the bank clerk was so warm-hearted
(3)
The British woman misunderstood the question again by thinking that people were concerned about her health because ________.
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A.
she was in poor health
B.
she was not eating properly
C.
she was a person of significance
D.
she was somewhat thin
(4)
“The question” that people kept asking the British woman should be understood as ________.