Question

【题目】

以下是生活中父母如何和孩子保持良好关系的材料。阅读至和A至F 对这些材料的主题概括, 选出符合每题的最佳选项。

【1】 Teenagers have opinions about everything and they aren’t shy about sharing them. So allow them to make more decisions. For example, let them decide when and where to study, what to wear, what sports team to join. However, keep in mind that some decisions can’t be discussed or changed. Parents need to set limits that protect their children’ health and safety.

【2】 There’s something happy about the family sitting together around the dinner table. The evening meal is often the time of the day when the family can sit together in one place and talk with each other. So make dinner a family affair. You can use the chance to share the news of the day and make weekend plans.

【3】 You can tell your children that you, too, sometimes feel angry or unhappy, which shows your children that you’re not just a parent—you’re a human. Not only will your children feel closer to you, but he or she may feel safe enough to disclose uncomfortable things or feelings.

【4】 They maybe make some wrong choices sometimes. But if they’re over 18, give them the chance to deal with problems on their own. After all, didn’t you want the same from your parents when you were their age?

【5】 Don’t read her diary, eavesdrop (偷听) on his phone conversations, or upset her with questions. Remember that they are humans and have their own privacy (隐私) just like you. If you think they have some problems, point it out directly, using five little words: “Can we talk about it?” For example, you can use the words such as “I’ve smelled smoke when you walk into the room several times now. A.Have you been smoking? Can we talk about it?”

B.Share your own feelings with your children.

C.Trust your children to make their own choices.

Allow your children to make their own decisions.

D.Don’t break your children’s privacy.

E.Praise your children when you should.

F.Set a fixed dinnertime to your children

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】C

【2】F

【3】A

【4】B

【5】D

【解析】

【1】C：允许孩子自己做决定。由下一句So allow them to make more decisions可知，本段主要是讲父母要多让孩子自己做选择，接着举例，可以让他们自己选择什么时候或是在哪里学习，要穿什么等事情。所以此空应该选C。

【2】F: 跟孩子定一个家庭会谈时间。这一段主要是讲一个家庭会谈，可以在每一次晚餐的时候，大家一起坐在一起谈谈。可以从一些关键词，例如dinner，sit，family等词中可以看出，所以此题选F。

【3】A: 和孩子分享自己的感受。 由You can tell your children that you, too, sometimes feel angry or unhappy, which shows your children that you’re not just a parent—you’re a human.可知，这段是讲父母要学会与孩子一起分享，无论是高兴还是伤心都可以与孩子分享，这样也可以拉近与孩子的距离。所以选A。

【4】B：相信孩子可以做自己的选择。本段主要讲孩子可能做出一些错误的决定，但是父母要给孩子机会自己解决问题，这样他们才能成才，从而做出正确的选择。故选B。

【5】D: 不要侵犯孩子的隐私。由本段几个重要的单词eavesdrop (偷听)和privacy (隐私)

可知，这段与孩子的隐私有关。由Don’t read her diary, eavesdrop (偷听) on his phone conversations, or upset her with questions.也可以知道，父母不要读孩子的日记，偷听他们的电话等。所以选项D正确，故选D。

考点:考查材料类文章的阅读