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After we meet people it is up to us to make them our friends. Let us stop a moment and consider what really makes a friend. The major qualities like faithfulness, devotion, friendly company, flash through our minds. But it is the large number of very small particular qualities that make up one’s whole character, such as cheerfulness, friendliness, and punctuality (守时). After all, “ to make a friend, be a friend” is not such a big and difficult order. There are particular favorable qualities, which attract others to us, and some elements which do have an effect on people in fundamental psychology(基础心理学) or not.

If you are in the presence of a shy person, talking and asking casual (随意的) questions may bring him out of his shell. Think of what would be most acceptable to the other person, for you to talk, or to listen. Either way the goal is to make yourself pleasant.

Always remember to listen, but listen intelligently. To have anyone “ hang on our words” is the most unnoticeably clever way in the world to please somebody. For a few extremely happy seconds we are the center of attraction, but when it is our turn to be audience, let us remember how we felt as the actor, and let’s be genuinely (真正地) interested in what the other fellow is saying.

Other people will like us, if we like them. If you want friends, keep your mind and heart open to friendship. Be alive to the other person’s world.

1.This passage is mainly about_______.

A. the ways of talking to a shy person

B. some favorable qualities to be a psychologist

C. how to make yourself attractive to your listeners

D. how to make a friend and be a friend

2.The words “ bring him out of his shell” in this passage most probably mean _______.

A. make him become active

B. make him feel more nervous

C. help him understand the question better

D. help him listen intelligently

3.According to the passage, an important way in making friends is to ________.

A. attract them B. be attracted

C. listen attentively D. talk widely

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A few days ago, I was sitting in a Thai restaurant enjoying a meal when I got on a phone call from a friend I hadn’t spoken to in a long time. In my enthusiasm and excitement, I talked quite louder than usual voice and in Spanish, my mother tongue.

A few minutes into the call, an old lady sitting at the table beside mine got up, seemingly offended, and asked the restaurant staff to relocate (重新安排) a table as far away as possible from this man who seemed to be impolite.

I sank in my seat out of embarrassment. I ended the call soon afterwards and felt the urge to apologize. Before getting up, I looked around to see where she was and she was at the table farthest away from me. I noticed that the lady was alone and staring out the window. I found a tinge (气息) of sadness or anxiety and perhaps a desire for aloneness and peace. But I had obviously destroyed it minutes earlier.

Right then I abandoned my plan for a conventional apologetic gesture. Seeing those funny smile cards in my wallet, I took one out and wrote some words to express my apology. On signing my restaurant bill, I asked a waiter to secretly charge the lady’s meal to me and hand her the smile card instead of her bill.

Did she take it the wrong way, I wondered? Did she get confused? Did she refuse the anonymous (匿名的) offer? And so on. I just waited and felt nervous to learn the outcome. To my pleasant surprise, things turned out the best possible way.

The waiter approached me in a joy, telling me, “In the many times she had dined here before, I had never seen the old lady smile as she did when receiving the smile card and the $0 bill. She thanked me even though I explained that someone else did the job.”

1.The old lady changed her seat mainly because of __________.

A. her private phone call

B. the author’s loud voice

C. the views out of the window

D. the restaurant staff’s mistake

2.What can we infer from Paragraph 3?

A. The author didn’t stop talking though he felt embarrassed.

B. The author went up to the old lady and apologized to her.

C. The old lady just moved to the farthest table to see outside.

D. The lady didn’t have a nice mood and liked to stay alone.

3.Feeling sorry, the author offered the old lady the following EXCEPT __________.

A. an apologetic gesture

B. a smile card

C. a free meal

D. some written words to apologize

4.Which of the following is the best title of this passage?

A. A Misunderstanding Caused by Different Cultures

B. An Unpleasant Experience in Thailand

C. A Smile Card for a Sincere Apology

D. An Old Lady Who Never Smiles

完形填空,阅读下面短文,从短文后各题所给四个选项(A、B、C和D)中,选出可以填入空白处的最佳选项,并在答题卡上将该项涂黑。

You can’t take it back, can’t buy it, borrow it or use someone else’s. You either have total ____ or it is gone. Each one of us on this earth has the same ____ to start with, to use or to _____. Do you know what it is ?

It is time. But are you really using your time____ or are you just letting it escape through your fingers like ____ through your toes as you walk along the beach?

I have a friend who always ____ about not having enough time to start a new business . But why doesn’t he have time? Is it because he spends too much time at work or he is toally involved in ____ activities when he gets home? I could ____ completely why he has no available time to pursue even the planning of a new ____ if this was the case. But ____, none of this is true.

This is a man who does not spend hours at home participating in all kinds of activities. ___ , this is a man who comes home every evening to eat and then to sit in front of the Tv for the rest of the evening. He spends his weekends doing nothing but ____ Tv or visit with friends. Do you think he has time available?

He has the time available if he choose to ___ it. However, he chooses to waste it. Does he have a strong ___ to actually start planning and taking action to begin a new business? No. And , with his current____, do you think he could actually make a success of his business? ____. Why? Put simply, it is because running your own business takes a great deal of effort and a huge amount of ____.

Time is not your enemy; passion and perseverance are ___ for success. If you want life to roll by without ____ anything you want, simply keep ___ your time. You will never get it back.

1.A. duty B. fun C. control D. freedom

2.A. period B. attitude C. amount D. way

3.A. pay off B. give away C. move off D. throw away

4.A. efficiently B. frequently C. slowly D. immediately

5.A. rocks B. sand C. fish D. beans

6.A. sets B. writes C. dreams D. complains

7.A. family B. government C. group D. school

8.A. discover B. understand C. believe D. wonder

9.A. factory B. year C. friend D. business

10.A. sadly B. uneasily C. excitedly D. hopefully

11.A. Anyway B. Instead C. Moreover D. therefore

12.A. watch B. buy C. invent D. broadcast

13.A. make B. use C. produce D. wait

14.A. voice B. body C. face D. desire

15.A. fault B. degree C. attitude D. plan

16.A. Gradually B. Unlikely C. Probably D. Wonderfully

17.A. trouble B. exercise C. furniture D. time

18.A. noted B. ready C. necessary D. bad

19.A. observing B. testing C. recording D. achieving

20.A. moving B. wasting C. changing D. saving

根据短文内容,从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。

Going to college is a new experience full of excitement of the unknown. Socialization is a big thing for college students and it is common to feel a little uncomfortable going into a situation where everyone is a stranger. You may probably miss your friends from highschool. 1. College is a great opportunity to make new lifelong friends. The questionis: how?

Get to know your roommate. You may find you have lots of things in common with your roommate, but even if you are completely different from each other, with a little effort and understanding the two of you may become best friends.

2.

If you leave your door open, this shows that you welcome visitors. As a result people will naturally stop in and say hello. Closed doors are not likely to bring many visitors and those who stay locked up in their rooms may give others the impression of being cold.Other students will be less likely to stop in and build a new friendship.

Join clubs or organizations.

Getting involved in organized societies is a great way to meet new people. 3. By staying active in college groups such as clubs and organizations you can meet lots of people with whom you share common interests.

Talk to classmates.

4. Starting conversations in class is a great opportunity to meet people who are interested in the same kind of studies as you are. Short friendly discussions can build lifelong friendships.

Try out for a sport.

If you' re athletic, trying out for a sport will do for you the same thing that joining a club will do. 5.

A. Close the door to keep away from theft.

B. Hang a welcome sign on your dorm room.

C. It also helps you get more familiar with the campus.

D. Your roommate is the first person you will have close contact with.

E. You will instantly meet a large group of people who share your interests in sports.

F. Get to know your classmates as you'll be spending several months with them.

G. Trying actively to find new friends can help ease the feelings of being lonely.

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阅读下面材料,在空白处填入适当的内容(1个单词)或括号内单词的正确形式。

On Thursday afternoon, with all the housework 1. (finish), Mrs White locked the door and went to the women’s club __2.__ usual. It was a pleasant way of passing time for an old woman who lived alone. When she came home, she sensed something 3. (usual) . Had someone got in? The back door and the windows were all locked and there was no sign of forced entry. Had anything been taken? She went from room to room, checking, and found her camera and watch 4. (miss).

The 5. ( follow ) Thursday she went out at her usual time, but didn't go to the club. Instead, she took a short walk in a park nearby and came home, 6. (let) herself in through the back door. She settled down to wait and see what 7. ( happen).

It was 4 o'clock when the front doorbell rang. Mrs White was making tea at the time. The bell rang again, and the next moment she heard her letter-box being pushed open. Picking up the kettle(壶)of boiling water, she moved quietly towards the door. A piece of wire appeared through the letter-box, and then a hand. The wire turned and caught around the knot(圆形旋钮)on the door-lock . Mrs White raised the kettle and poured the water over the hand. A sharp cry was heard outside as the wire fell to the floor and the hand was pulled back, 8. was followed by the sound of running feet.

It wasn’t long 9. the police caught the thief. And Mrs White was admired at the club for her 10. ( success ) self-protection.

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