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Parents should stop blaming themselves because there’s not a lot they can do about it. I mean the teenager problem. Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it, at certain times a wonderful, reasonable and helpful child will turn into a terrible animal.
I’ve seen friends deal with it in all kinds of different ways. One strict mother insisted that her son, right from a child, should stand up whenever anyone entered the room, open doors and shake hands like a gentleman. I saw him last week when I called round. Sprawling himself (懒散地躺) on the sofa in full length, he made no attempt to turn off the loud TV he was watching as I walked in, and his greeting was no more than a quick glance at me. His mother was ashamed. “I don't know what to do with him these days,” she said. “He’s forgotten all the manners we taught him.”
He hasn’t forgotten them. He’s just decided that he’s not going to use them. She confessed (坦白) that she would like to come up behind him and throw him down from the sofa onto the floor.
Another good friend of mine let her two daughters climb all over the furniture, reach across the table, stare at me and say, “I don’t like your dress; it’s ugly.” One of the daughters has recently been driven out of school. The other has left home.
“Where did we go wrong?” her parents are now very sad. Probably nowhere much. At least, no more than the rest of that unfortunate race, parents.
【小题1】This text is most probably written by ______.
A.a specialist(专家) in teenager studies | B.a headmaster of a middle school |
C.a parent with teenage children | D.a doctor for mental health problems |
A.the change from good to bad that’s seen in a child |
B.the way that parents often blame themselves |
C.the opinion that a child has of his parents |
D.the advice that parents want their children to follow |
A.pay no attention to them | B.are too busy to look after them |
C.have come to hate them | D.feel helpless to do much about them |
A.Parents have no choice but to try to accept it. |
B.Parents should pay still some attention to the change. |
C.Parents should work more closely with school teachers. |
D.Parents are at fault for the change in their children. |
"Beating is a sign of affection, cursing (骂)is a sign of love."
Many may not expect to hear the words of the old Chinese saying in these modern times—with parents wealthier and better educated than they have ever been-but experts say they still ring true.
Today, it seems, Chinese parents are more likely to send their children to pre-college military academies in the United States in the hope that some tough love will pave the way tosuccess.
"Good education doesn't mean letting your child enjoy privileges, especially our boys," said Song Wenming, an entrepreneur(企业家)in Jinhua, East China's Zhejiang province." They should be raised in tough conditions to know what to fight for in the future."
In August, Song sent his 17-year-old son to Valley Forge Military Academy (VFMA) in Pennsylvania. And he is far from alone, even though it takes a lot of money - around $48,000 per year —to send a child to a strict military school.
Statistics shows that an increasing number of Chinese students have been registering with such academies.
A few years ago, there were no Chinese students at Valley Forge. Today, there are 28."All of the Chinese students at Valley Forge came from wealthy families, some of them were spoiled," said Jennifer Myers, director of marketing and communications at the school.
Song's only son, Song Siyu, had a rocky start during his first six weeks at the school. The teenager said he went to the school voluntarily but did not expect it to be as difficult.
Now, three months later, he has perfected the art of taking a bath in 35 seconds, finishing a meal without looking at his food, and making his bed with precision. He can even take criticism, no matter how unreasonable.
"The training is hard but I know it is good for self-development of individuals," said Song Siyu.'The endless training and scolding are just ways to build up our character, they are not personal."
But his enthusiasm is not universal. Ten of the 13 Chinese students who joined the academy this year have transferred to other schools.
But for those who stick with it, there is a reward for all the hard work.
【小题1】From the second paragraph, we can know the old Chinese saying _____.
A.is out of date in modern times. |
B.is disagreed by rich parents. |
C.is still worth trusting |
D.is deeply believed by better educated parent. |
A.Song sent his only son to military school, so he feels lonely. |
B.Song is the only one who sends his child t to military school. |
C.There are other people sending their children to military school besides Song. |
D.The fee of the military school is so high that only Song can afford it. |
A.taking a bath in a short time |
B.having his meal with his eyes closed |
C.taking unreasonable criticism |
D.improving his character |
A.10 | B.13 | C.15 | D.25 |
A. It's likely that more and more Chinese students will attend VFMA.
B. Most Chinese parents approve of educating their children by beating and cursing nowadays.
C. Song Siyu had no difficulty in adjusting to the life at VFMA.
D. Most Chinese students support the way of education at VFMA.
Young people and older people do not always agree with each other. They sometimes have different ideas about living, working and playing. But in one special program in New York State, adults and teenagers live together in a friendly way.
Each summer 200 teenagers and 50 adults live together for eight weeks as members of a special work group. Everyone works several hours each day. They do so not just to keep busy but to find meaning and enjoyment in work. Some teenagers work in the woods or on the farms near the village. Some learn to make things like tables and chairs and to build houses. The adults teach them these skills.
There are several free hours each day. Weekends are free, too. During the free hours some of the teenagers learn photo-taking or painting. Others sit around and talk to sing. Each teenager chooses his own way to spend his free time.
When people live together, rules are necessary. In this program the teenagers and the adults make the rules together. If someone breaks a rule, the problem goes before the whole group. They talk about it and ask, “Why did it happen? What should we do about it?”
One of the teenagers has this to say about the experience: “You stop thinking only about yourself. You learn how to think about the group.”
1.In one special program in New York State, young and older people_______.
A.are friendly to one another |
B.teach one another new ways of building houses |
C.live together but do not work together |
D.spend 8 weeks together, working as farmers. |
2.Living together, _________.
A.the teenagers have to obey the rules the adults made. |
B.the members don’t have to obey the rules. |
C.the members are not allowed to break the rules they make together. |
D.the members have no free time except on weekends |
3.The last paragraph shows that the teenager thinks his experience in the program is _________.
A.disappointing |
B.helpful |
C.tiring |
D.unpleasant |
4.The best title for the passage is ________.
A.Sadness of Living Together |
B.Different Ideas About Living |
C.Teenagers and Adults Together |
D.Life in New York State |