Question

根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。

Positive Ways to Discipline Children

__51__“You get more bees with honey than with vinegar，”and “the carrot works as well as the stick”suggest that a system of discipline is more effective when it uses rewards or positive discipline, rather than sanctions(制裁)．

_52__When children misbehave, you should try to see it as an opportunity to teach them acceptable or good behaviour, rather than as an opportunity to fix bad behaviour. In addition, you need to look at misbehavior as，in some way or another, your child's  way of trying to communicate certain needs or to express himself.

The most important positive way to discipline children is reflected in another old saying, “do as I do.”One of the most powerful tools at the parent's disposal (处理) is the ability to model good behavior for their child. Children are constantly watching adults, and trying to copy their language, their tone of voice, their manners, and their actions. __53__

Being respectful to your children is another way to positively discipline them. __54__Get down to their level，rather than talking to them from a distance. When you do talk to your children about discipline, tell them what it is that you want them to do. Rather than focusing on the negative behavior, tell them what the right behavior is. Don't tell them not to bounce the ball in the house; instead tell them that the ball will bounce better when it is outside.

Finally, empathy (同情) is a great tool in positively disciplining children.__55__Conversely (相反), help them to understand how others feel. Explain, for example, that when your son pulls his sister's hair, it feels bad, like the time your son accidentally fell on the sidewalk. By being empathetic and encouraging empathy, you can positively discipline your child.

A．Make eye contact when talking to children.

B．There are many positive ways to discipline children.

C．Trying to understand them can help you know them better.

D．One way to use positive discipline is to view misbehaviour differently.

E．Learn to listen to what they are saying, and feel what they are feeling.

F．There are many sayings that confirm the importance of positive discipline with children.

G．By modeling good behavior when the children are not misbehaving, we can positively encourage their behavior.

Answer 1

 FDGAE       51．F　本文的话题是积极教育孩子。下面引用了两句谚语，因此选F引入话题，而且与下句呼应。52．D　本段论述如何正确对待孩子的不良行为。D为本段主题句，下文都是围绕这个主题句展开的。53．G　本段论述家长的表率作用。家长通过自己的正确行为可以为孩子起到楷模的作用，引导孩子模仿家长的良好行为。54．A　前句为主题句，“尊重孩子是积极教育孩子的另一种方法”。此处填A，是对主题句的阐释：“和孩子谈话时，要与孩子进行目光交流”，呼应下句“俯身和孩子谈”。55．E　根据下句Conversely (相反), help them to understand how others feel 可推测前句：家长要设身处地为孩子着想，这样呼应下句：反过来也要教育孩子为别人着想。