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【题目】"Sorry,but I don't agree with you ..."This is usually followed by unbearable silence and angry tears.I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone,because I don't want to lose a friend.I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego（自尊心）is hurt.

Before the other person gets a chance to explain why she disagrees with me,my usual response would be,"If you aren't able to see my point of view,then what you think isn't worth my time or consideration,either."But now I've come to realize that when a friend disagrees with me,sometimes she is simply saying,"I don't agree with the way things are done."She still respects me as a person,and is only pointing out a better way to look at a matter.However, there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the truth.That's when need to listen to what she says.

I've learned that one way to help my friend is for me to be open and honest with the other to voice my thoughts and listen to the other carefully.While we can't control how a person will respond to our views,we must learn to disagree with our friends in love.We will never feel that we are better than the other person.And that will help us to be less emotional,and more objective in the way we express our opinions.In the same way,we can also stay open to feedback（反馈）from others,knowing that our friends may be correcting us in love.

Good friendships build each other up,sometimes through disagreements and honest opinions.Though I don't like being disagreed with,I'm starting to see the value of such disagreements.

【1】The author has found it difficult to disagree with someone because .

A. he is a friendly person B. he usually hides his ideas

C. he has no mind of his own D. he wants to keep the friendship

【2】When a friend disagreed with him,the author used to .

A. be unhappy B. argue with the friend

C. break up with the friend D. explain things calmly

【3】The author will listen to a friend when .

A. he is against the truth B. he doesn't tell the truth

C. he is respected by a friend D. he does things in the wrong way

【4】What does the author mainly talk about in the text?

A. How to keep friendship. B. How to avoid hurting a friend.

C. How to express disagreements. D. How to deal with disagreements.

Answer 1

【答案】

【1】D

【2】A

【3】A

【4】D

【解析】本文是一篇议论文，作者通过自己的经历，引出对朋友间出现“观点不同”问题的讨论。最后得出结论，真正的友情能够在争论和坦诚中促进双方的成长，虽然作者还是不喜欢他人反对自己的观点，但是他开始看到不同观点存在的价值。

【1】细节理解题。根据第一段中“I've always found it difficult to disagree with someone,because I don't want to lose a friend.”可知，作者认为很难反对某人意见的原因是害怕失去朋友，想要维持友谊。故选D.

【2】细节理解题。根据第一段中“I've found it even harder to accept it when someone disagrees with me,because my ego（自尊心）is hurt.”可知，当作者的意见被他人反对时，他感到自尊心受到伤害。B选项“与朋友争论”，C选项“结束友谊”，D选项“冷静地解释”，原文中并没有提到。A选项“感到不开心”，符合原文内容，故选A.

【3】细节理解题。根据第二段的最后两句“However, there may be times when my friend disagrees with me because I'm against the truth.That's when need to listen to what she says.”可知，作者认为，当他的观点违背客观事实时，他需要听取其他反对者的意见。故选A.

【4】主旨大义题。阅读全文可知，文章主要谈论的是他人不同意自己观点以及自己不同意他人观点时如何处理的问题。阅读各个选项，只有选项D“如何处理争论”符合，故选D.