题目内容

I had an experience some years ago, which taught me something about the ways in which people make a bad situation worse by themselves. One January, I had to hold two funerals on successive days for two elderly women in my community. Both had died “full of years”, as the Bible would say .Their homes happened to be near each other, so I paid condolence(吊唁)calls on the two families on the same afternoon.
At the first home, the son of the deceased woman said to me, ”If only I had sent my mother to Florida and gotten her out of this cold and snow, she would be alive today. It’s my fault that she died. ”At the second home, the son of the other deceased woman said, “If only I hadn’t insisted on my mother’s going to Florida, she would be alive today .That long airplane ride, the sudden change of climate ,was more than she could take.It’s my fault that she’s dead.”
You see that any time there is a death, the survivors will feel guilty. Because the course of action they took turned out bad, they believe that the opposite course------keeping mother at home, putting off the operation----would have turned out better. After all, how could it have turned out any worse?
There seem to be two elements involved in our willingness to feel guilty. The first is our pressing need to believe that the world makes sense, that there is a cause for every effect and a reason for everything that happens. That leads us to find patterns and connections both where they really exist and where they exist only in our minds.
The second element is the view that we are the cause of what happens, especially the bad things that happen. It seems to be a short step from believing that every event has a cause to believing that every disaster is our fault. The roots of this feeling may lie in our childhood.
A baby comes to think that the world exists to meet his needs,and that he makes everything happen in it. He wakes up in the morning and summons the rest of the world to his tasks. He cries, and someone comes to attend to him. When he is hungry, people feed him,and when he is wet, people change him. Very often, we don not completely outgrow that childish view that our wishes cause things to happen.
小题1:The author had to conduct the two women’s funerals probably because_______.
A.he was minister of the local church
B.he wanted to comfort the two families
C.he was an official of the community
D.he had great pity for the deceased
小题2:People feel guilty for the death of their loved ones because________.
A.they can’t find a better way of express their sorrow
B.they have neglected the natural course of events
C.they believe that they were the reason
D.the don’t know things often turn in the opposite direction
小题3:According to the main passage, the underlined part in Paragraph 4 probably means that________.
A.everything in the world is predetermined
B.there’s an explanation for everything in the world
C.the world can be interpreted in different ways
D.we have to be sensible in order to understand the world
小题4:What’s the main idea of the message?
A .Life and death is an unsolved mystery.
B. Never feel guilty all the time because not every disaster is our fault.
C Every story should have a happy ending.
D. In general, the survivors will feel guilty about the people who passed away.

小题1:A
小题2:C
小题3:B
小题4:B

试题分析:本文通过一个故事告诉我们不要总是责备自己,世界上的一切事情的发生都有自己的原因,很多情况下和我们没有关系,也不必责备自己。
小题1:A 推理题。根据文章第一段One January, I had to hold two funerals on successive days for two elderly women in my community.可知作者要主持两次葬礼,说明他是牧师,故A正确。
小题2:C 推理题。根据文章第二段开始和结束At the first home, the son of the deceased woman said to me, ”If only I had sent my mother to Florida and gotten her out of this cold and snow, she would be alive today. It’s my fault that she died. ”和.That long airplane ride, the sudden change of climate ,was more than she could take.It’s my fault that she’s dead.”可知他们都认为自己是导致事情发生的原因。故C正确。
小题3:B 推理题。根据本句The first is our pressing need to believe that the world makes sense, that there is a cause for every effect and a reason for everything that happens.可知在世界上发生的每一件事情都有自己的原因。故B正确。
小题4:B 主旨大意题。本文通过一个故事告诉我们不要总是责备自己,世界上的一切事情的发生都有自己的原因,很多情况下和我们没有关系,也不必责备自己。故B正确。
点评:本文通过一个故事告诉我们不要总是责备自己,世界上的一切事情的发生都有自己的原因,很多情况下和我们没有关系,也不必责备自己。考察推测题较多,推断题测试考生在阅读基础上的逻辑推理能力,要求考生根据文章所述事件的逻辑关系,对未说明的趋势或结局作出合理的推断;或根据作者所阐述的观点理论,对文章未涉及的现象、事例给以解释。考生首先要仔细阅读短文,完整了解信息,准确把握作者观点。
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小题2:
A.representB.respondC.showD.explain
小题3:
A.andB.norC.or D.otherwise
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A.bill B.$3 C.cheque D.chance
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小题6:
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A.pull B.combineC.breakD.find
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A.received B.accepted C.gave D.bought
小题15:
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小题16:
A.strangeB.uniqueC.rareD.curious
小题17:
A.sad B.regretful C.gladD.sure
小题18:
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小题1:
A.droveB.startedC.parkedD.broke
小题2:
A.outsideB.downC.towardD.over
小题3:
A.playingB.smilingC.rollingD.running
小题4:
A.wayB.lengthC.timeD.distance
小题5:
A.even ifB.as ifC.so long asD.now that
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A.parkB.caveC.prisonD.castle
小题7:
A.get upB.take upC.break downD.lie down
小题8:
A.tearB.smileC.pleasureD.surprise
小题9:
A.howeverB.insteadC.thereforeD.anyhow
小题10:
A.stopB.winC.achieveD.succeed
小题11:
A.luckily B.apparentlyC.actuallyD.equally
小题12:
A.confidentB.joyfulC.quietD.proud
小题13:
A.worryB.dreamC.aimD.hope
小题14:
A.boyB.childC.player D.winner
小题15:
A.chance B.fortuneC.approvalD.trouble
小题16:
A.someoneB.anyoneC.everyoneD.one
小题17:
A.failB.runC.fallD.cry
小题18:
A.embarrassingB.disappointingC.frighteningD.amusing
小题19:
A.happenedB.contributedC.relatedD.mattered
小题20:
A.discoveryB.observationC.storyD.incident
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A.resolve B.regretC.abandon D.avoid
小题2:
A.Besides B.ThereforeC.MoreoverD.However
小题3:
A.trying  B.declining  C.failing  D.striving
小题4:
A.ages   B.years   C.stages  D.intervals
小题5:
A.prescribes  B.protests  C.proves  D.predicts
小题6:
A.so  B.while  C.but  D.and
小题7:
A.sensitive  B.superior  C.exclusiveD.efficient
小题8:
A.expose  B.experience  C.explore  D.exploit
小题9:
A.as long as B.as far as  C.as well as  D.as soon as
小题10:
A.to  B.against  C.at  D.toward
小题11:
A.absolute  B.inevitable C.essential D.obvious
小题12:
A.require B.inquire  C.receive D.achieve
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A.creative  B.positive  C.objective D.competitive
小题14:
A.prospects  B.concepts C.memories D.outlooks
小题15:
A.added  B.toughened  C.strengthened  D.increased
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Sixteen years ago I learned this lesson in the back of a New York City taxi cab. One day I was in a taxi and we headed   2  the airport. We were driving in the  3  lane when suddenly a black car drove out of a parking space right in front of us.  My taxi driver slammed on his  4, slide sideways,and at the very last moment our car stopped and  5  the other car by just inches!The driver of the other car, the guy who almost caused a big accident, looked around and started  6  at us.
My taxi driver just  7 and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was  8, so I said,"Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!” This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call "The Law of the Garbage Truck".
He said, “Many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of 9 full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage  10  up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on 11 .  Don’t take it personally; Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Believe me. You’ll be  12 .”
So I started thinking, how often do I let Garbage Trucks run right over me? And how often do I take their garbage and  13  it to other people at work, at home, or on the street? It was then that I said, “I don’t want their garbage and I’m not going to spread it anymore.”
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Have a Garbage-Free Day!Have a marvelous, garbage-free day!The seeds you plant today  20  the harvest you reap tomorrow.
小题1:
A.enrichB.ruinC.spareD.obtain
小题2:
A.throughB.toC.in D.for
小题3:
A.latterB.rightC.oppositeD.free
小题4:
A.brakesB.doorC.windowD.seat
小题5:
A.knockedB.overtookC.missedD.lost
小题6:
A.laughingB.throwingC.glancingD.yelling
小题7:
A.wonderedB.smiledC.ignoredD.guessed
小题8:
A.friendlyB.angryC.tiredD.disappointed
小题9:
A.expectationB.passengersC.garbageD.goods
小题10:
A.turnsB.pushesC.holdsD.piles
小题11:
A.roadsB.childrenC.youD.dustbin
小题12:
A.upsetB.happierC.pitifulD.frightened
小题13:
A.spreadB.shareC.explainD.contribute
小题14:
A.surpriseB.pleasureC.doubtD.regrets
小题15:
A.funnyB.importantC.strangeD.embarrassing
小题16:
A.rememberB.forgetC.valueD.appreciate
小题17:
A.enjoyB.exchangeC.recallD.imagine
小题18:
A.inspireB.takeC.mendD.notice
小题19:
A.lettingB.consistingC.makingD.dreaming
小题20:
A.distinguishB.deserveC.deliverD.determine
I can still remember the first day when I met my best friend. She had just moved into the neighborhood and her grandmother brought her down to 1   me. I hid behind my mother and she hid behind her grandmother,  2  to look at each other. Soon, we lost the shyness and started playing with each other. In 7th grade, I first lost 3   with her. She was  4   family problems and I deserted her.  5   of my new friends liked her 6  they knew she had “problems”.
It was last year when I noticed the 7  . I guess I was just to catch up in high school to realize she 8  someone there for her. I didn’t know 9, but she started cutting herself!
She was 10  from clinical depression(抑郁), and had to go to a 11  during the day. I was very upset at first but with the late night 12 , and meeting each other at midnight. I wanted to be there for her since her new best friend once 13  her since people were calling her crazy.
Yesterday she came to me and said this:“I never knew what a best friend was 14  you were the only person that would 15 me from cutting; the only person that ever made me feel better about myself and my problems. You don’t know this but I was trying to 16  myself that night you called me. You didn’t even know you were 17  me. I owe you so much.”
We both cried. And I guess a kind of 18  from my life is:“never give up on your friends”. Even if they aren’t as cool as others, or people think they are 19 , they need someone there. If you desert them, you will only be 20  yourself. So if a friend needs you, and you care for them, you can never desert them.
小题1:
A.callB.findC.meetD.know
小题2:
A.scaredB.surprisedC.gladD.eager
小题3:
A.communicationB.friendshipC.relationD.touch
小题4:
A.breaking throughB.going throughC.seeing throughD.getting through
小题5:
A.NoneB.AllC.EachD.Neither
小题6:
A.even ifB.howeverC.as ifD.because
小题7:
A.problemB.coolnessC.assessmentD.sadness
小题8:
A.hadB.wantedC.neededD.expected
小题9:
A.howB.whyC.whenD.where
小题10:
A.datingB.sufferingC.separatingD.originating
小题11:
A.hospitalB.teacherC.friendD.school
小题12:
A.comfortsB.conversationsC.persuasionsD.calls
小题13:
A.likedB.respectedC.desertedD.hated
小题14:
A.whenB.untilC.beforeD.after
小题15:
A.protectB.supportC.stopD.warn
小题16:
A.controlB.killC.forgetD.enjoy
小题17:
A.hurtingB.ignoringC.remindingD.helping
小题18:
A.factB.truthC.lessonD.experience
小题19:
A.unfriendlyB.coolC.strangeD.crazy
小题20:
A.unhappyB.foolishC.impressiveD.anxious
Boys need friends, suffer when they don't believe they have any, and worry over the ups and downs of relationships. Many adults believe that somehow boys need friends less than girls do, in truth, though, no boy is an island; boys value their friends throughout childhood and adolescence and are happier and healthier when they have solid relationships with peers(同龄人).
Despite the common belief that girls are better at relationships, most boys consider their friends a very important part of their lives, and boys may actually be better at keeping friendships than girls are. A recent study of 10 to 15­year­old boys and girls found that girls' friendships are actually more fragile. Girls tend to say and do hurtful things to each other more frequently than boys, and girls are more hurt by the end of a friendship.
Boys are the living definition of the phrase “peer group”; they love games with rules, competition, and doing things together. Boys seem to enjoy, even need the opportunity to test themselves against others, and many lasting friendships begin in karate(空手道) class or on the basketball court. Competence and skill are widely respected; being picked last for a team or left out altogether is an experience that can haunt(萦绕心头) a boy for years.
As boys mature(成熟), the friendship becomes even more important, and it frequently widens to include girls. During the teen years, friends can become the most important part of a boy's life—and a part in which his parents are not included. The confusion of being a teenager leads boys to form close bonds(关系) with friends. There is the sense for many boys that a friend is someone who is “always there for me”, someone he can trust. They may be partners in crime or partners in study, but the friendship of adolescent boys can run surprisingly deep.
小题1:The common belief of adults is that boys________.
A.don't care about others as much as girls
B.don't value friendship as much as girls
C.have the same friendship as girls
D.have healthier friendship than girls
小题2:According to the text, boys' friendship________.
A.is usually built around active play
B.tends to be in small groups
C.can bear mutual hurt between friends
D.doesn't suffer from failure
小题3:The author mentions the study in the second paragraph to prove ________.
A.many people believe girls are better at relationships
B.most boys consider their friends very important
C.boys may be better at keeping friendships than girls
D.boys may be more active in a friendship
小题4:As a boy gets older, he tends to________.
A.widen his circle of friends to include different kinds of people
B.shift his focus from his friends to himself
C.leave his parents out of his friendship
D.be confused about what a friendship is
小题5:What's the best title for the text?
A.Friendships between Boys and Girls
B.Boys and Their Friendship
C.Childhood and Adolescent Friendship
D.Tips on Making Friends with Boys
I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my profession stand in the way of being a good parent.
I no longer consider myself the center of the universe. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows(誓约) mean what they say. I am a good friend to my friends, and they to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today.
So here's what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life. A real life, not a desire of the next promotion(提升), the bigger paycheck, the larger house.
Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure(空闲), it is work. Pick up the phone. Send an e-mail. Write a letter. And realize that life is the best thing and that you have no business taking it for granted.
It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, our minutes. It is so easy to exist instead of to live. I learned to live many years ago. Something really, really bad happened to me, something that changed my life in ways that, if I had my choice, it would never have been changed at all. And what I learned from it is what, today, seems to be the hardest lesson of all.
I learned to love the journey, not the destination. I learned to look at all the good in the world and try to give some of it back because I believed in it, completely and totally. And I tried to do that, in part, by telling others what I had learned. By telling them this: Read in the backyard with the sun on your face. Learn to be happy. And think of life as a deadly illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it ought to be lived.
小题1:The best title of this passage probably is________.
A.Love your friends B.Live a real life
C.Don't waste time D.Be a good mother and wife
小题2:The underlined sentence "It is so easy to exist instead of to live" in the fifth paragraph probably has the same meaning as________.
A.it is so easy to keep alive but not to live a real life
B.it is very hard to live a real life
C.it is so easy to make a living
D.it is more difficult to exist than to live a happy life
小题3:What's the author's attitude toward work?
A.Do it well to serve others.
B.To earn enough money to make life better.
C.Try your best to get higher position and pay.
D.Don't let it affect your real life.
小题4:It can be inferred from the passage that_________.
A.the author is a success in personal life
B.the author didn't try her best to work well
C.the author spent all her time caring for her children
D.the author likes traveling very much
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Abraham, Nebraska
There are many ways to come up with ideas, one of which is to write down a list of your experiences, as well as things from your imagination. When you want to write, look in the notebook for ideas.
Books for writers often have good suggestions, too. One we like is Spilling Ink: A Yong Writer’s Handbook by Anne Mazer and Ellen Potter. Perhaps your library has it.
My classmates keep asking about a new movie I’ve seen. But I don’t want to spoil it for them. What should I do?
Corinne (by e-mail)
You could ask your classmates whether they are sure they want to know and if they insist, go ahead and tell them. You may be able to give them a general idea of the movie without revealing details of the ending.
I’m going to a soccer camp for youth, but I’m not sure if I’m good at soccer or if I’ll make friends.
Louise, New Hampshire
Soccer camp is for people who share an interest in the sport. No matter what a person’s ability is at the beginning, it’s likely that everyone will leave camp with improved skills.
Sharing a common interest may make conversations easier. Smile, be friendly, and have a sense of humor. Before long, you may find that you’ve made some good friends.
Someone invited me to a birthday party. When I got there, kids were doing stuff I’m not interested in, like watching scary movies. I told them my mom would pick me up, so I just left. Was I rude for doing that?
Sam (by e-mail)
You just did the right thing and that isn’t being rude.
We hope you’ll talk with your parents about this. They’re probably proud of what you did. They may have other suggestions for you, too. Talk about different situations that might come up and what would be the best way to handle (处理) them.
小题1:Who is interested in Spilling Ink: A Yong Writer’s Handbook?
A.Corinne. B.Louise.C.Abraham. D.Sam.
小题2:What can we learn about the soccer camp?
A.The practice is hard but interesting.
B.It is difficult to make friends in the camp.
C.The camp only wants people who are new to soccer.
D.One’s skills can be improved when leaving the camp.
小题3:The answer to Sam’s question shows what Sam did is _____.
A.funny B.strangeC.foolishD.smart
小题4:According to the passage, you can make friends by the following means EXCEPT _________.
A.keeping smilingB.Being humorous
C.Changing your habitsD.Being friendly to others
小题5:This purpose of the text is to _____.
A.give adviceB.tell storiesC.find friends D.share interests

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