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I found out one time that doing a __36____for someone could get you into a lot of trouble.I was in the eighth grade at the time, and we were having a final test.During the test, the girl sitting next to me ___37____ something, but I didn’t understand.So I __38______ her way and found out that she was trying to ask me if I had an extra pen.She showed me that hers was ____39_____ and would not write.I happened to have an extra one, so I took it out of my pocket and ____40_____ it on her desk.
Later, after the test papers had been turned in, the teacher asked me to stay in the room when all the other students were____41_____.As soon as we were alone she began to talk to me about ____42____ it meant to grow up; she talked about how important it was to____43____ your own two feet and be responsible for your own ____44____.For a long time, she talked about honesty and emphasized the fact ____45____ when people do something____46____, they are really cheating themselves.She made me ____47____ that I would think seriously about all the things she had said, and then she told me I could leave.I walked out of the room ____48____ why she had chosen to talk to me about all those things.
____49____, I found out that she thought I had cheated on the test.When she saw me lean over to talk to the girl next to me, it looked as if I was copying answers ____50____ the girl’s test paper.I ___51____ to explain about the pen, but all she____52____ say was that it seemed very strange to her that I hadn’t talked of anything about the pen the day she talked to me ____53____ after the test.____54____ I tried to explain that I was just doing the girl a favor by letting her use my pen, I was sure she ____55____ to believe that I had cheated on the test.
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Dahlia was running around the house screaming and crying. “I hate her! I hate her! I will __36__ play with her again!” Finally, her steps slowed, __37__ she told her father what had happened. He listened attentively. __38__ she stopped, he asked, “Is there __39__ else?” Dahlia added more details and began __40__ bitterly again. Father was listening. When Dahlia __41__ talking, he said, “It must __42__ you to be made fun of like this by your best friend Tina.” Dahlia __43__ her father’s embrace(拥抱)and support as she cried __44__ more in his arms. Then as __45__ as the storm of tears began, she was finished. She got up and __46__ announced, “Daddy, did you know that tomorrow Tina and I are going together to the beach? We are __47__ a log house there with Adam and Tom, I will tell Tina before we go that I __48__ ruin her work again, and I’m sure she will be __49__ to me. ”
Why was this encounter (sudden meeting) so successful? How did Dahlia __50__ her sadness so completely and realize her responsibility in the matter __51__ her own?
There were three main parts in her father’s reaction that __52__ : (A) Attention (B) Respect (C) Trust. He gave his daughter __53__ attention and took her seriously as she __54__ her feelings. He respected her by not coming with words of wisdom, advice or help. He validated(证实)the feelings she __55__ . And he trusted her to do and say what she needed in order to lead herself toward resolution of her emotions.
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