Question

What do we really mean by being open? Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share. It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel. In this way we will be understood and accepted by others. If we aren’t open with others, we won’t fully believe in ourselves or others.
Here are a few ways for you to be more open. First, make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. Second, share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions. Third, try to change your questions into statements(陈述句) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily. For example, you might say, “I feel happy that you’re here,” instead of, “Are you glad that you’re here?” Finally, try not to say, “I don’t know.” This usually means I don’t want to think about it any more.
Remember also that it is not suitable to be open with everyone in every situation. You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you. Besides, some people may not be used to too much openness. If we say everything we feel or think to them, they will feel very uncomfortable at times.
In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, but we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

Title: Being open
Meanings of being open	l   1  others to come in, to speak and to share. l Show others    2   we think and feel. l Let others understand and 3  us. l Believe in ourselves and others by being open.
4  to be more open	l Make   5 your outside behavior is the same with your inside feelings and thoughts. l Try to share your    6 feelings. l Make statements instead of   7 and use the first person. l Try not to say, “I don’t know.”
Reasons for not being too open	l Someone may use your   8  to hurt you. l You will make them feel very uncomfortable   9   .
Conclusion: It will    10 us get on well with others if we keep the balance between being open and not being too open.

Answer 1

【小题1】Invite      
【小题2】how/what    
【小题3】accept     
【小题4】Ways       
【小题5】sure
【小题6】real/true    
【小题7】questions    
【小题8】information  
【小题9】sometimes  
【小题10】make/help

解析试题分析:
【小题1】细节理解题，根据文中语句“Being open is a kind of invitation to others to come in, to speak and to share.”理解可知。开放就是邀请别人进来。故用invite。
【小题2】细节理解题，根据文中语句“It is important in letting others get to know how we think and feel.”理解可知。开放还意味着让别人了解自己，故用how或what。
【小题3】细节理解题，根据文中语句“In this way we will be understood and accepted by others.”理解可知。开放还意味着让别人理解自己并能接受自己，故填accept。
【小题4】细节理解题，根据文中表格的语句理解可知，此处是开放的方式或方法，故选ways。
【小题5】细节理解题，根据文中语句“make your outside behavior the same with your inside feelings and thoughts.”理解可知。确保你的言行一致，故填sure。
【小题6】细节理解题，根据文中语句“share how you really feel about something instead of just opinions.”理解可知。一定要说出您的真实感受，故选real或true。形容词。
【小题7】细节理解题，根据文中语句“try to change your questions into statements(陈述句) and talk in the first person so that people will understand you more easily.”理解可知。在跟别人交谈时一定多用陈述句，少用疑问句，故选question。
【小题8】细节理解题，根据文中语句“You may want to be more open with close friends, but not with people you don’t know well, because you are not sure how someone else will use what they know about you.”理解可知。
【小题9】细节理解题，根据文中语句“If we say everything we feel or think to them, they will feel very uncomfortable at times.”理解可知。有时我们会让别人不舒服，故填sometimes。表示有时。
【小题10】细节理解题，根据文中语句“In all, being open is a good way for us to get on well with other people, but we’d better keep the balance between being open and not being too open.”理解可知。
考点：此文重点说明怎样让自己更外向，如何外向
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