题目内容
Some people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you have known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it's time for you to change the subject.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of parting. If you're saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they've known you half their life.
小题1:Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way _______.
小题2:After having asked somebody a question, it'll be polite of you to _______.
小题3:Generally speaking, good talkers are persons who _______.
小题4:If you really want to meet someone again, _______.
How is it done? Here are several skills that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they'll help people feel relaxed and make friends with them quickly.
First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy he is, will answer a question. One well-known businesswoman says, "At business lunches, I always ask people what they did that morning. It's a common question, but it will get things going." From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go.
Second, once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers. This point seems clear, but it isn't. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively. Real listening at least means some things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation. If someone sticks to one topic, you can take it as a fact that he's really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it's time for you to change the subject.
Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the moment of parting. If you're saying good-bye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, "I've really enjoyed meeting you." If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they've known you half their life.
小题1:Asking questions might be a quite good and suitable way _______.
A.for you to make more and more new friends |
B.to begin your business talks |
C.to get the conversation going smoothly |
D.for you to make a deep and lasting impression on others |
A.make clear what kind of person he is |
B.listen to his reply attentively |
C.wait quietly and patiently for his answer |
D.go on asking him more questions |
A.are good at making any topic interesting |
B.never talk too much or too little |
C.always speak in a gentle way |
D.know how and when they should change the topic of the talk |
A.you may take him as your lifelong true friend |
B.it seems necessary for you to let him know it |
C.it's proper for you to give him a second handshake |
D.it'll be helpful for you to have further understanding of him |
小题1:C
小题2:B
小题3:D
小题4:B
试题分析:这篇文章讲述的是和别人交往时怎样能够成为一名擅长谈话的人,文中给出了一些可行性建议。
小题1:推理判断题。根据文中所提供的信息From there you can move on to other matters—sometimes to really personal questions. And how he answers will let you know how far you can go. (这样你就可以转移到其他话题—有时是一些私人问题。并且他们的回答也是你知道你们的谈话能进展到什么程度。)可以推断出问问题是一种非常好并且合适的使谈话顺利进行的方法,故选C。
小题2:细节理解题。根据文中原句once good talkers have asked questions, they listen to the answers.(好的谈话者一旦问了问题,他们会听回答),根据句意此题选B。
小题3:语义理解题。根据文中所提供的信息,一个擅长谈话的人知道怎样和什么时候改变谈话的话题,故选D。
小题4:细节理解题。根据文中原句If you want to see that person again, don't keep it a secret. Let people know what you feel,(如果你想再见那个人,不要让此成为秘密,让人们知道你的感受),根据句意此题选B。
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