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Don’t make it personal.
If you get upset, it can help to remember that you’re mad at the person’s idea, not the person.
Never criticize the other person’s idea.
Instead of saying “That’s a stupid idea!”, try:“I don’t agree, and here’s why.” Never shout loudly and
you’ll have a much better chance of getting your idea across.
Use “I” statements to communicate how you feel and what you think.
Using “you” statements can sound argumentative (好争论的). For example, telling your mom "You
always remind me about my chores when I have a lot of homework” has a very different tone (语气)
from "I’m under pressure because I have a lot of homework tonight. Can I do those chores tomorrow?"
Listen to the other point of view.
When the other person is talking, try to stop thinking about why you disagree or what you’ll say next. Instead, focus on what’s being said. When it’s your turn to talk, repeat any key points the other person made to show you have paid attention to what was said. Then calmly express why you disagree.
Stay calm.
This is
the most important thing you can do to keep a conversation go on well. B.赞赏
C.同意
D. 诠释
B. Pay attention to what he’s saying.
C. Think about what we’ll say next.
D. Expresses our own idea to him.
B. Your idea sounds terrible.
C. You always ask me many questions.
D. Your idea is quite wrong.
B. Four.
C. Five.
D. Six.
B. Attitude towards disagreements.
C. Opinions about disagreements.
D. Tips to show disagreements.
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A young father who held a child in his arms walked past me．I felt as if I saw my childhood from another space：happy and carefree.But now…I don’t know whether it is because I have grown up or because dad is getting old.We differ in our ways of thinking．He always put his opinions and codes(习俗)of behavior on me．Whenever I do something wrong，he never admits(接纳)it.We are just like two people coming from two different worlds．1 wandered(徘徊)in the streets，until I had only the street lights to keep me company．When I finally reached the high-rise apartment block in which I lived，I saw that the light was still on．
I thought to myself:“Is father waiting for me．or is he still angry with me?”
All the lights were off except father's．Dad was alwys like this．Maybe he didn't know how to express himself.After an argument he has the habit of creeping up(悄悄地来到)in my sleep．This was how he always was．He has been a leader for so long that telling everyone else what to do has become his second nature．With the key in hand,1 was as nervous as I had ever been．At last，I decided to open the door．As soon as I opened the door tears ran down my cheeks．I suddenly realized that the iron(铁的)door that I had imagined between us did not exist at all．Love-it's second to none．
小题1:Decide which is the best order(顺序)of the following according to what happened in the passage.a．I opened the door and entered the house.
b．Sadly I ran out into the street.
c. I reached the place where I lived and saw my house still brightly lit．
d．I thought of my father's kindness towards me．
e. walked about in the street without any aim．
| A．b，e，d，c，a | B．b，e，c，d，a | C．b，e，a，c，d | D．b，e，d，a，c |
小题2:What made the writer think of his childhood?| A．The sight of the street lights. |
| B．The sight of the empty street. |
| C．The sight of a father with a child in his arms. |
| D．The sight of light in his own house． |
小题3:Why do you think the father often shouts at his son?| A．Perhaps the father is getting older and older． |
| B．Perhaps the son has already grown up. |
| C．Perhaps they never agree with each other． |
| D．Perhaps the father has got used to doing that． |
小题4:According to the passage what does“Love-it's second to none”mean?| A．爱并没有什么 | B．爱是第二位的 | C．爱是至高无上的 | D．爱就是没什么. |
小题5:What conclusion can you come to after reading the passage?| A．The father treats his son in an unfair way． |
| B．The father is actually kind to his son. |
| C．The father is neither kind nor cruel to his son. |
| D．The father is always finding fault(过错) with his son. |
Reading is a good habit，but the problem is there’s too much to read these days，and too little time to read every word of it．There are hundreds of skills to help you read more in less time．Here are two skills（技能）that I think are very good．
Preview一if it’s long and hard．Previewing is very useful for getting a general（概括性的）idea of heavy reading like long magazine articles and science reports．
Here’s how to preview．
●Read the first two paragraphs and the last two paragraphs（段落）carefully．
●Then read only the first sentence of the other paragraphs．
Previewing doesn’t give you all the details．It tells you not to spend time on things you don’t really want-or need-to read．
Skim—if it’s short and simple．Skimming is a good way to get a general idea of light reading—like popular magazines or the sports of your daily paper．
Here’s how to skim．
●Get your eyes to move fast．Sweep them across each line．
●Pick up only a few key words in each line．
Everybody skims differently．You and I may not pick up the same words when we skim the same piece．but perhaps we’ll get the same idea of what it’s all about．
1．How many skills are talked about in this passage?
A．One． B．Two． C．Three D．Four．
2．What does the underlined word“preview”mean in Chinese?
A．精读 B．默读 C．朗读 D．略读
3．What should we NOT do when we read the news about sports events in a daily Paper according to the passage?
A．Get our eyes to move fast．
B．Read the last two paragraphs carefully．
C．Sweep our eyes across each line．
D．Pickup only a few key words in each line．
4．what is the best title（标题）for this passage?
A．Why we should read B．What to read
C．When to read D．How to read faster
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