Remembering names is an important social skill.Here are some ways to master it.

Recite and repeat in conversation

  When you hear a person’s name,repeat it.Immediately say it to yourself several times without moving your lips.You could also repeat the name in a way that does not sound forced or artificial.

  Ask the other person to recite and repeat

  You can let other people help you remember their names.After you’ve been introduced to someone,ask that person to spell the name and pronounce it correctly for you.Most people will be pleased by the effort you’re making to learn their names.

  Admit(承认) you don’t know.

  Admitting that you can’t remember someone’s name can actually make people relaxed.Most of them will feel sympathy if you say.“I’m working to remember names better.Yours is right on the tip of my tongue.What is it again?”

  Use associations(联系).

  Link each person yon meet with one thing you find interesting or unusual.For example,you could make a mental note: "Vicki Cheng -- tall, black hair. " To reinforce you’re your associations, write them on a small card as soon as possible.

  Limit the number of new names you learn at one time.

  When meeting a group of people, concentrate on remembering just two or three names. Free yourself from remembering every one. Few of the people in mass introductions expect you to remember their names. Another way is to limit yourself to learning just first names. Last names can come later.

  Go early.

  Consider going early to conferences, parties and classes. Sometimes just a few people show up on time. That's fewer names for you to remember. And as more people arrive, you can hear them being introduced to others -- an automatic review for you.

1. How will most people feel when you try hard to remember their names?

  A. They will be moved.      B. They will be annoyed.

C. They will be happy.      D. They will be discouraged(泄气的).

2. If you can't remember someone's name, you may __

  A. tell him the truth          B. tell him a white lie

  C. ask him for pity          D. ask others to help you

3. When you meet a group of people, it is better to remember __

  A. all their names           B. a couple of names first

  C. just their last names         D. as many names as possible

4. What does the text mainly tell us?

  A. Tips on an important social skill.    

B. Importance of attending parties.

C. How to make use of associations.    

D. How to recite and repeat names.

 

Sometimes a person may have an idea about himself that will prevent him doing a good job. He may have the 1 that he is not able to do it. A child may think he is stupid because he does not understand how to make the 2 use of his mental faculties (才能). Older people may think that they are too old to 3 anything new because of their old age.

A person who believes that he is unable will not make a real 4 , because he feels it 5 be useless. He won’t work with the confidence necessary for success, and he won’t work 6 . He is 7 likely to fail, and the failure will 8 his belief in his incompetence (无能)。

Adler, a famous doctor, had 9 like this. When he was a small boy, he had a poor 10 in maths. His teacher told his 11 he had no ability in maths in order that they would not 12 too much of him. In this way, they too 13 the idea. He accepted 14 mistaken thinking of his ability, felt that it was useless to 15 , and was even poorer at maths, 16 they expected.

One day he worked out a problem which 17 of the other students had been able to solve. He succeeded in solving the problem. This gave him confidence. He now_18 with interest, determination and purpose, and he soon became especially good at  19 .He not only proved that he could learn maths well, but luckily he learned early in his life from his own experience that if a person goes at a job with determination and purpose, he may 20 himself as well as others by his ability.

1. A. belief     B. way    C. method     D. condition

2. A. biggest    B. best      C. highest    D. deepest

3. A. teach     B. learn     C. accept      D. use

4. A. decision      B. success  C. effort      D. trouble

5. A. will      B. should     C. must       D. can

6. A. well      B. hard      C. fast       D. carefully

7. A. truly     B. really     C. however    D. therefore

8. A. change     B. strengthen   C. become     D. get rid of

9. A. an experience B. an example   C. an experiment   D. a story

10. A. interest     B. thought   C. beginning     D. ending

11. A. classmates  B. friends    C. neighbours    D. parents

12 A. ask       B. expect     C. get      D. win

13 A. developed   B. proposed    C. discovered    D. found

14. A. his      B. her       C. its      D. their

15. A. manage    B. succeed   C. try        D. act

16. A. though    B. when      C. as       D. because

17. A. none     B. all       C. many       D. most

18. A. lived     B. worked   C. played      D. graduated

19. A. lessons      B. studies    C. jobs       D. maths

20. A. encourage   B. teach     C. astonish     D. admire

 

 

In the U.S.,the public has tended to believe that all motorcycles are ridden by wild,irresponsible lawless young men.

There are several things about motorcycling that the average citizen dislikes.A cyclist's appearance has something to do with this dislike.Motorcyclists frequently look dirty;in fact,they are dirty.0n the road there is little to protect them from mud,crushed insects and bird droppings.For practical reasons they are often dressed in old clothing which looks much less respectable than the clothing of people who ride in cars.For the same reason motorcyclists usually wear dark colors.Perhaps this helps to explain why they are sometimes suspected of having evil natures. In old plays of long ago,evil characters usually wore black. In cowboy movies the“bad guys”usually wear black hats while the “good guys” wear lighter colors.Something else about their appearance makes an unfavorable impression. In their practical,protective clothing they look very much like the men on military motorcycles in the movies of World War II—cruel enemies who roared into peaceful villages filling people's hearts with fear.

Probably the machine itself also produces anger and fear. Motorcycles are noisy,though some big trucks are even noisier.But trucks are big and carry heavy loads;they are accepted(if not really welcomed)because they perform a needed service,making America move.Motorcycles,on the other hand,make all unpleasant noise just to give their riders pleasure.That is what is commonly thought.In the woods motorcycles,frighten animals.Roaring along quiet streets,they wake sleeping families and make babies cry.

Of course the danger of motorcycling,also helps account for many people's low opinion of the sport.Its defenders,however,claim that careful cyclists are in less danger than commonly behaved.

A cyclist must drive as if everybody around him wanted to kill him.He must pay careful attention to his driving.From that point of view,a man on a motorcycle is safer than,a man in a car.

1.Which of the following about good characters of old American movies is right?

A.had no difference from evil characters

B.usually wore lighter colors   

C.looked gracious

D.often rode horses

2.Most Americans believe that_____.

A.motorcyclists are all blue-collar workers

B.motorcycling has become one of America’s most popular sports

C.motorcyclists can't afford to buy cars

D.only wild,irresponsible,lawless young men enjoy motorcycling

3.We can conclude that______

A.all good guys in cowboy movies weal white

B.there existed different opinions towards motorcycling sport

C.animals in the woods like motorcycles because motorcyclists usually feed crashed insects to them

D.motorcycles will make noise as soon as people go to sleep

4.Why do Some people claim that a man on a motorcycle is safer than a man in a car ?

A.because car race is a sport with several disadvantages

B.because motorcyclists must drive very carefully

C.because most people want to keep a distance from the dirty motorcycles for fear that they should lose dignity

D.because motorcycles tend to be accepted by more and more people

5.Which of the statement is right?

A.all motorcycles are wild young men

B.all motorcycles are irresponsible young men

C.all motorcycles are lawless young men

D.they frequently look dirty,they often make an unpleasant noise,and their appearance contributes to people's terrible imagination

 

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